This girl at my school really likes me but I'm gay. She's really nice, and I just want to be friends with her. She wants to ask me out, but doesn't have the courage. How can I say no without hurting her feelings or coming out to her? :help:
You could tell her that you think you could be great friends, but that a romantic relationship with her wouldn't last. Or that you'd rather be friends with her than a boyfriend. Or tell her she's not your type.
