i was messaging online last night to an old internet friend who i havent talked to for a while and after about 20 mins of talking getting the usual stuff out of the way about what you been upto, hows life the usual she asked me if anythings been happening with me... i thought right im going for it this is basically what was said: her: so ha yea ive been having my ups and downs, u? me: im pretty sure im now gay lol her: :eek: OMG Aww. Wait HOmosexual gay or just... gay gay ? me: whats the difference ? lol her: gay gay is like " omg that's so gay " mw: oh no cock muncher gay lol her: well... thanks for clearing that up and giving me mental images at the same time me: your wellcome hehe mr: your the first person ive told her: ah.wow rea;;y? then we talked and shes now my unofficial fag hag cos i dont like that name but i told her i draw the line at shoe shopping she jsut laughed and said she dont like that anyway. it felt so good coming out to someone it really helped the factit was someone not infront of me i was kind of in a safe zone behind a computer, but best friend and family thats a far harder battle and may take some time anyway its a start thanks for reading take care x
thanks ED i think its gonna be an upward battle but ill get there maybe not today maybe not tomorra someday and soon ill get on that plane or regret it for the rest of my life.... oh dear ive gone all cassablanca
i know but i can say online chat is a good way to talk its got the security of a letter but you get immediate feedback so now anxiety over what they think
congrats adam,your right the first is the hardest,and it will get easier,i too last night sent a email to long time friend,tried to phone but number has changed ,its the only reason i used email over face to face,i'm so very certian he will be very supportive,just as your friend was for you,i wish you the best in the future,it will get easier and you have our support 24 seven.
Congratulations Adam! Over time you will become more comfortable with letting others know, including your family, and being out. It will get 'easier' from here on.
Congrats, internet friends are great to come out to first, that is what I did too, its good practice.
Awesome. One down, more to go! The more people you tell, the easier it gets. (I've only told one person so far, too.)
If it's just a question of more support .... lot's of stores have sales on girdles right now (not that I'm watching those ads :roflmao :roflmao:
