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Letter to my Mum.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by VanceA, Apr 5, 2009.

  1. VanceA

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    Well here it is Im reading it to her tomorrow.

    Hopefully this no longer sounds like im blaming them for anything, and I hope they take the news well.

    Ill give you an update with her response as soon as I tell her.
     
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    That's a great letter. I came out to my parents through a letter and it worked out great. Good luck and let us know what happens!
     
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    How nice :slight_smile: Great work.

    I did the same thing, but my letter is still stored somewhere on my comp.... You're quite brave!

    Let us know how it went...
     
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    Hey Vaughn, nice letter. I hope it goes well. :slight_smile:
     
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    Very nice letter :slight_smile:
     
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    that sounds really good, good luck! (*hug*)
     
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    Nice letter Vaughn. I hope it goes well! :slight_smile:
     
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    Wonderful letter Vaughn :slight_smile:
     
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    Your letter was quiet direct and straight to the point. I hope all goes well for you. Let us all know how it goes :grin:
     
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    Good luck!!! Hope it goes well :grin:
     
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    yea, good luck...let us know what happens. im still too scared to even contemplate coming out to my parents!!! u have courage. i love that.
     
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    that was great. im sure everything will go fine.
     
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    Its sitting here on my desk starring me in the eyes...(if the letter had eyes) telling me to go give it to her now.... but she's doing some radio show for the next three hours, and i don't want to screw that up. Ive decided that at 645 im going to hand it to her (ive since realized that reading it to her is going to be far more emotional than her reading it).
     
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    i think its good what your doing honey..... good luck dude!!!
     
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    Good luck! Keep us updated! :slight_smile:
     
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    Well that was easliy the slowest ten minutes of my life waiting for her to respond.


    All she said was that 'Your not a disappointment, and you never will be, I want you to be happy and if its with a Man it doesn't matter' Then we hugged for a good few minutes, and said 'That you don't have to keep things like this from me and you should talk to me about things like this.'

    Im crying right now, but thats about the answer that i figured I would get. Its such a relief... Now just to wait to see what my father says.
     
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    Yay! Congratulations! You have an awesome mother. I'm sure your father will take it well too!
     
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    YEA!!!!!!! im so happy for you!!!!!!!
     
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    Yay Vaughn! Super props go to you and your mom :icon_mrgr
     
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    Congrats Vaughn. You have a great mom!