(sorry for the wall of text >.<) basically, it all began when i was talking to one of my friends over MSN, i told her i thought i thought i was gay, we had a long discussion about it, for the next week, i thought about it almost all of the time, then i decided that i was gay, so i told her, she was fine with it. after this I told some other of my best friends, who where all OK with it. then after this, i made a terrible mistake :dry: . the year before, i spent half of the school year in the same dormatory with the same person (i go to boarding school). i knew him pretty well, and i thought he had a right to know. unfortunately, i hardly had any time to talk to him, because we where in different boarding houses this year, so i told his girlfriend to tell him (she was fine with it) that i was serious about it, and it's not a joke!! Then, he spreads a rumour about me, which ends up in the whole school knowing, so yea, that's about it but the school took it generally well, which was one of the upsides, as well as not losing any friends and gaining respect and a few people i would have never got on with, if i were straight...