So today, I came out to the last family member (my dad). It was during dinner and I just wanted to talk about EC. I started like: "You know, I'm in a forum for..." And my brain started screaming, that I'm not out to everyone at the dinner table. Everyone looked at me like: Yeah? So I thought, I had to come out eventually, why not now? I said (to my father): Everyone here knows, but I wanted you to know it too, even though I think you already might have suspected something: I'm gay. My father said, he didn't suspected anything. Maybe I'm playing it good The last game we played as a family was the Game of Life and I accidentally picked a girl as my "wife". But I just thought: Go with it. Apparentally it was okay for everyone ^^ Well, he's alright with my sexuality (didn't expect anything else) and now my whole family knows. (!) --- I told my best friend about all of this and she wrote to me: Wait, you're gay? I thought you were bi?! So I came out to her again... No, I actually told her I was bi earlier, because I was unsure about how I felt and who I was. I thought, telling her I was bi would give me the opportunity, should I not be gay, to go back on dating boys, and no one would ask any questions. But yeah, I told her I was gay and she was super supportive. She even told me, that she would be there if I needed anything, like a maid of honour :lol: Now I feel like I can start being myself I'm not going to lie, EC played a big part in accepting myself! I wouldn't be here, if it wasn't for all of you. Thank you!(&&&)
Congratulations Jolly Hermione! That's wonderful! It must be a weight off your shoulders to no longer be hiding that part of yourself from him.
That's awesome! I swear shedding that burden is better than any drug (because drugs are bad, obviously). With each person that I tell my spirits keep lifting up higher. I also agree that this forum gave me the boost that I needed to make it happen! :eusa_danc:eusa_danc
