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Coming out songs

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by JakeBHT, May 3, 2009.

  1. JakeBHT

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    Now I have realised that the easiest way for me to articulate to my mother that I'm gay is to perform a song at a school concert that she is at that tells her. So please post yours if anyone else has any. Or feed back on this one I want it to be perfect before I do it. Oh and I'd like to thank Jem29 for the insperation it gave me, and to hope he doesn't mind that I used some of his letter! And it changes alot will keep the thread updated!​


    "
    Coming out

    Verse 1
    The last thing I want to do is disappoint you.
    I try to make you proud of me in everything I do.
    But I’m sick and tired of waiting,
    For you to ask, who I’m so obviously dating.
    And I just want you to love me for whom I am,
    Not because you have to,
    Because you want to
    And because you know that it’s still me,
    I haven’t changed you see.

    Chorus
    The hardest thing I’ve ever had to do,
    Was simply to tell you,

    Verse 2
    You’re no fool,
    You’ve probably guessed,
    But without you saying you know,
    I just get more and more stressed.
    And I hope you still love me,
    Cause this is who I am,
    This is where I am in my life,
    And I know you understand.

    Chorus
    The hardest thing I’ve ever had to do,
    Was simply to tell you,
    To say that one simple phrase,
    And even now I can’t write its’ a haze.

    Verse 3
    I don't blame you for reacting badly,
    I don't hold a grudge.
    But you need to see that this is me,
    How you feel about it, you’re the judge.
    And this song is me coming out to you,
    The best way I can think of,
    I am more articulate in this form,
    So listen to me and say that you still love.

    Chorus
    The hardest thing I’ve ever had to do,
    Was simply to tell you,
    To say that one simple phrase,
    And even now I can’t write its’ a haze.
    But I’ve gotta do it sometime,
    Pluck up the courage to cross the line.

    Verse 4
    Let me stress I’m not suddenly camp,
    And I have two left feet,
    I don’t lisp my words,
    I don’t fancy every bloke and Pete.
    Girls are complicated and they don’t seem to get me at all,
    Indeed they seem to misunderestimate me,
    They feel too short before the fall,
    But that’s just one in 3 and 1/3 billion so with girls i’m unsure

    Chorus
    The hardest thing I’ve ever had to do,
    Was simply to tell you,
    To say that one simple phrase,
    And even now I can’t write its’ a haze.
    But I’ve gotta do it sometime,
    Pluck up the courage to cross the line.
    So here goes, listen to what I say,
    Mum I’m gay.
     
  2. jotheoneandonly

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    !!gylbfilubw$lgiubwlgiuhgiluh£il$u"h£$uit"b£$liutbl£utb"l Iu£$b Liugbbv B Adb Vi]



    Amazing!!!!!!
     
  3. zzzzzz13

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    WOW, that is actually a really good song!!
    good luck at the school concert, i think that song says everything needed :slight_smile:
     
  4. JakeBHT

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    thanks, the choruses have changed now so here is the update:
    "
    Coming out

    Verse 1
    The last thing I want to do is disappoint you.
    I try to make you proud of me in everything I do.
    But I’m sick and tired of waiting,
    For you to ask, who I’m so obviously dating.
    And I just want you to love me for whom I am,
    Not because you have to,
    Because you want to
    And because you know that it’s still me,
    I haven’t changed you see.

    Chorus

    The hardest thing I’ve ever had to do,
    Was simply to tell you,
    What I think to be true.

    Verse 2

    You’re no fool,
    You’ve probably guessed,
    But without you saying you know,
    I just get more and more stressed.
    And I hope you still love me,
    Cause this is who I am,
    This is where I am in my life,
    And I know you understand.

    Chorus
    The hardest thing I’ve ever had to do,
    Was simply to tell you,
    What I think to be true.

    Verse 3

    I don't blame you for reacting badly,
    I don't hold a grudge.
    But you need to see that this is me,
    How you feel about it, you’re the judge.
    And this song is me coming out to you,
    The best way I can think of,
    I am more articulate in this form,
    So listen to me and say that you still love.

    Chorus

    The hardest thing I’ve ever had to do,
    Was simply to tell you,
    What I think to be true.
    But’ve gotta do it sometime,
    Pluck up the courage to cross the line.
    Tell you what I am and what is on my mind

    Verse 4

    Let me stress I’m not suddenly camp,
    And I have two left feet,
    I don’t lisp my words,
    I don’t fancy every bloke and Pete.
    Girls are complicated and they don’t seem to get me at all,
    Indeed they seem to misunderestimate me,
    They feel too short before the fall,
    But that’s just one in 3 and 1/3 billion so with girls i’m unsure

    Chorus
    The hardest thing I’ve ever had to do,
    Was simply to tell you,
    What I think to be true.
    But’ve gotta do it sometime,
    Pluck up the courage to cross the line.
    Tell you what I am and what is on my mind
    So here goes, please listen to what I say,
    I hope your love will stay,
    Mum I'm gay.
    "
     
  5. Timm

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    That's brilliant! Clever! Amazing! Unbelievable!

    WOW!
     
  6. JakeBHT

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    cheers still working on it with my partiner in crime
    Jo
     
  7. Jem29

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    That's awesome! I'm glad my letter was an inspiration to you. Hopefully it will get you as good a response as it did for me. Keep us informed. :slight_smile:
     
  8. Magnet

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    That's brilliant and amazing :slight_smile:
     
  9. Greggers

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    Bravo! Bravo! AMAZING! :slight_smile:

    Its...great! Yea...dunno what else to say haha
     
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    [YOUTUBE]DFU0-albxMw[/YOUTUBE]
     
  11. Mike J

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    Wow that is so cool and a really good idea. Goodluck!
     
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    Coming Clean--Green Day

    Great song!!!
     
  13. Noah

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    Sorry i meant yours, not green day. Although that's a good one too
     
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    That was amazing!
     
  15. JakeBHT

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    There is always such a positive aura of support on this site.

    Thank you!
     
  16. Noah

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    See if you can record it and put it on youtube. I've been messing with it too, I hope you don't mind. It just inspired me :slight_smile:
     
  17. JakeBHT

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    Thats cool I don't mind! Me and Jo are still writing the music at the moment and perfecting the lyrics but when we have finished I will put it on you tube, might make a myspace acount or something.
     
  18. Noah

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    Ok I tried to PM you so it wouldn't take up space, but I can't PM regular members :frowning2:

    Thanks! Here's what I've got so far, it's rough so bear with me :slight_smile:
    I changed a few of the words and some of the structure, if you don't like it I'll change it back.

    Coming out

    Verse 1
    C F
    The last thing I want to do is disappoint you.
    C F
    I try to make you proud of me in everything I do.
    C F
    But I’m sick and tired of waiting,
    Am C
    For you to ask, who I’m dating.
    C G
    And I just want you to love me for who I am,

    Pre-Chorus
    Am F
    Not because you have to,
    G Em7
    But because you want to
    C
    And cause you know that it’s still me,
    F G
    I haven’t changed you see.

    Chorus
    C Fmaj7
    The hardest thing I’ve ever had to do,
    C Am
    Was simply to tell you what I think is true.
    C
    You’re no fool,
    Fmaj7
    You’ve probably guessed,
    C
    But without you saying you know,
    Em G
    I just get more and more stressed.
    Am
    And I hope you still love me,
    G
    Cause this is who I am,


    Verse 3
    I don't blame you for reacting badly,
    I don't hold a grudge.
    But you need to see that this is me,
    How you feel about it, you’re the judge.
    And this song is me coming out to you,
    The best way I can think of,
    I am more articulate in this form,
    So listen to me and say that you still love.

    Chorus
    The hardest thing I’ve ever had to do,
    Was simply to tell you,
    What I think to be true. You’re no fool,
    You’ve probably guessed,
    But without you saying you know,
    I just get more and more stressed.
    And I hope you still love me,
    Cause this is who I am,


    Verse 4
    Let me stress I’m not suddenly camp,
    And I have two left feet,
    I don’t lisp my words,
    I don’t fancy every bloke and Pete.
    Girls are built the wrong way,
    They're just aren't attractive at all,
    And if you try to fight it
    You don't know anything about me at all,

    Bridge
    But I’ve gotta do it sometime,
    Pluck up the courage to cross the line.
    Tell you who I am and what's on my mind

    Chorus
    The hardest thing I’ve ever had to do,
    Was simply to tell you,
    What I think to be true.
    But I’ve gotta do it sometime,
    Pluck up the courage to cross the line.
    Tell you what I am and what is on my mind
    So here goes, please listen to what I say,
    I hope your love will stay,
    Mum I'm gay.
     
  19. Noah

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    Ignore the chords apparently they got messed up when I copied and pasted... X(
     
  20. Fiorino

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    aww that's so sweet!

    Hope it goes well-good luck:thumbsup: