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The first friend I told!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Prccgeek, May 4, 2009.

  1. Prccgeek

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    So, about a week and a half ago I had this huge cast party at my house for the musical I was in. Both of my best friends were planning to help me clean up and just stay over after because it would have been around two in he morning when it ended. I thought about telling them both that nought to jut get it over with at once. However, one of my friends decided she needed to go home. I was sort of glad be aide I didn't think she would take it to well. Still, because they couldn't both be there, I decided to call the whole thing off because at that point I was looking for any reason back out. I was so nervous!

    After we cleaned up the house we both took showers because we were pretty gross after a show and a party. I was done and sitting up in my room having a crazy debate in my head. I again decided not to tell. We talked for a while and I brought up that I had had a lot on my mind and that I was a little confused. I again tried to back out. Saying I just wasn't ready to talk about it.
    Then, completely as a joke, she asks in this funny voice, "are you a lesbian?" I was floored! She was expecting to use that line to get me to tell what was really on my mind but she happened to be right on the dot. I answer with a really quite "sort of". It was her turn to be surprised. She answers with this huge "REALLY!!!". We both broke out in nervous laughter, but it was good. She was amazing!explaining to me that it was completely normal to question sexuality and whatever I am she would still love me! There was a lot of me shaking, big hugs, and the most random laughter. I could have pictured it going better!
     
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    Congrats sounds like you have a good friend. :slight_smile:
     
  3. EM68

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    Thats great congrats!
     
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    Aw, thats cool! Congrats!
     
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    Congratulations! Great that you have such a supportive friend! :slight_smile:
     
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    thats so great! glad your first was a good experience, cause that's the hardest one
     
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    congrats!!!! I love happy coming out stories
     
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    Awww that's so awesome! See, that's how these things should go, with lots of hugs and laughin'. <3

    You have an awesome friend, there! Conga rats to you! (Or "congratulations" if you prefer, but nobody's said "conga rats" yet, hehe!) :grin:
     
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    thats amazing. reading posts like this really makes my day.

    well done :slight_smile:
     
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    Congratulations !
     
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    Congratulations :thumbsup:
     
  12. Prccgeek

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    Thanks everyone. Reading all your comments made me smile!

    P.S. I like the conga rats thing. :slight_smile:
     
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    Sorry I can't type. "it couldn't have gone better!" I have to type this all on my iphone cuz otherwise I think my parents would find out. Well at least I am increasing my testing speed.
     
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    Awesome! Congrats!