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Out to My One and Only Male Friend!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by hikari979, May 29, 2009.

  1. hikari979

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    I decided to come out to my friend after a previous post. I suspect he might be gay, but not as much as I used to. I was scared to tell him for a while, because he has said some pretty homophobic things in the past, (I thought it might be to cover up his own sexuality), but I decided to anyways. I was going to tell him during dinner yesterday, but I got scared, so I didn't. After dinner, we went to a concert, and after the concert, I went to his house to spend the night. When we got to his house, we decided to watch a movie. I was sitting next to him on his bed, but I couldn't get myself to say it out loud, so I decided to text him. (I know; it was a very strange thing to do). So this was how our text message conversation went (lol)

    Me: J, Can I tell you something personal? (Play along)
    J: Sure?
    Me: I want to be honest with you; so, I'm gay. Don't freak.
    J: So what?
    Me: So, are you cool?
    J: Yeah, it doesn't change anything.
    Me: I guess we can talk face to face now. I was just a little scared.
    J: You have nothing to be afraid of.

    He was so cool about it. We even went and saw a movie today. It has not been awkward, like I thought it would be. I don't know why I was so scared. I am so glad I did it. :icon_bigg And I think he might just be a feminine straight guy. He seemed like he was in love with the female lead singer of this band that performed called The Sounds. ( I can't blame him; she is gorgeous)
     
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    congrats! sounds like it went really well, youre lucky to have such an accepting friend :slight_smile:
     
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    Congratulations!
     
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    well done mate!!
     
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    congrats he sounds amaixing :grin:
     
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    Congrats on coming out! :thumbsup:
     
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    That's pretty good! The first guy I told was my best guy friend, who was highley religious and also said some homophobic things. And he was very cool with it!
     
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    That's great, congratulations!

    Yeah, she is :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  10. leonardo1145

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    Awesome!
    and maja from the sounds is beautiful and plus she has killer legs!
     
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    kudos! thats so cool!
     
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    Congratulations! :slight_smile:
     
  13. dstnwgntn

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    that's totally awesome!