I decided to come out to my friend after a previous post. I suspect he might be gay, but not as much as I used to. I was scared to tell him for a while, because he has said some pretty homophobic things in the past, (I thought it might be to cover up his own sexuality), but I decided to anyways. I was going to tell him during dinner yesterday, but I got scared, so I didn't. After dinner, we went to a concert, and after the concert, I went to his house to spend the night. When we got to his house, we decided to watch a movie. I was sitting next to him on his bed, but I couldn't get myself to say it out loud, so I decided to text him. (I know; it was a very strange thing to do). So this was how our text message conversation went (lol) Me: J, Can I tell you something personal? (Play along) J: Sure? Me: I want to be honest with you; so, I'm gay. Don't freak. J: So what? Me: So, are you cool? J: Yeah, it doesn't change anything. Me: I guess we can talk face to face now. I was just a little scared. J: You have nothing to be afraid of. He was so cool about it. We even went and saw a movie today. It has not been awkward, like I thought it would be. I don't know why I was so scared. I am so glad I did it. :icon_bigg And I think he might just be a feminine straight guy. He seemed like he was in love with the female lead singer of this band that performed called The Sounds. ( I can't blame him; she is gorgeous)
That's pretty good! The first guy I told was my best guy friend, who was highley religious and also said some homophobic things. And he was very cool with it!