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came out to my friend on MSN

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Kizz, Jun 4, 2009.

  1. Kizz

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    I finally did it.
    just to clarify, I ran a forum on a word processer and made out it could send files to other word processers, so I used "hruikan" to get their opinions without outing myself.

    it feels such a relief :slight_smile:
     
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    Congratulations! It's great that you were able to come out to your friend!
     
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    good for you! Congrats!
     
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    Well done! congrats!
     
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    thanks :slight_smile:
    turns out, he's bi too :confused:
    but, before a few of you think this, no chance of anything happening. :lol:
    he's funny and all, but the peircings in his lip put me off, and we just aren't compatable :lol:
     
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    congrats, I'm very proud of you.
     
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    sean man thats awesome :slight_smile: congrats :slight_smile:
     
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    thanks everyone :slight_smile:
    I see him wednesday for our science exam, and I just KNOW I'll be quieter than usual with him. but, idk. I'll try to be ok with him anyway :/
     
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    if anything you should be louder with him... not during exam though haha

    but you now know youve more in common and can understand each other a bit better :slight_smile: you can hang out and check out cute guys lol....also tell him to ditch the pierceing sort his attitude out and get to bed youll be up there in 5 mins XD
     
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    congrats : ) (*hug*)
    shame about you's not being compatable tho lol(*hug*)
     
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    I am a really shy person. I put off telling him for months. so louder? no X3

    um. at the end, we're going to different colleges :confused:
    and you can't change people :lol:
    and I'm sure anything even remotely concerned with "going to bed" won't happen in a loooooooong time :lol:
     
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    oh well was worth a shot lol

    nevermind onwards and upwards :slight_smile:
     
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    his personality:compatable
    his clothes/body etc:definately not :lol:
    I'm sure many would like him, but I prefer someone taller, someone who'd more out. and probably, someone who's more social :slight_smile:
     
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    well you can get taller is slightly possible but not alot....

    oh well you meet someone for you :grin:
     
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    in about 3 years, yes :lol:
     
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    still meet someone though :slight_smile:
     
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    Yeah when i came out on MSN it was a bit scary meeting them face to face because it's difficult to know how someone's reacted: it's only text and it doesn't have to represent what someone really thinks at all, especially when i never could come out face to face to him for some reason. But we just pretended nothing happened until the end of school LOL. Anyway congrats
     
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    I hope that'll be the same for me X3
    but idk. will have to wait and see :icon_wink
     
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    Good job. It's really not that bad when it's over and done with.