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Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Scentedcandle, Jun 4, 2009.

  1. Scentedcandle

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    Wow, when i first joined this site and read everyones coming out stories i didnt really get what the big deal was. I do now!
    I told one of my mates from work today, I didnt say the words 'gay' cause I didnt really feel ready to say that much but i just told her that im into girls. Her reply was great, she was really understanding and happy that i felt i could tell her :slight_smile:
    Im not really sure what i am but im not the type of person who likes labels.Its like one of the other posts i read yesterday, I dont feel ready to come out as gay or bi. I just wanna let people no not to be surpried if they find out im with i girl :slight_smile:
    I feel amazing right now like i dont have to hide anymore. Yay!!
     
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    Label or no label, congratulations on coming out to your friend! :slight_smile:
    It's awesome that you could come out to her and that she was cool about it!
     
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    congrats :slight_smile:

    and you dont need a label as you arent defined by sexuality :slight_smile: you like who you like its the person that should count not the bits they got :wink:.
    good shes understanding its someone you can talk to and confide in
     
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    well done mate! And I totally agree with you on the label front. Who cares if you're gay straight, bi, trans, or heliotrope...you are who you are and thats all that matters. xxxxx
     
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    Congratulations! :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats! (*hug*)
     
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    Yay! Congratulations!
     
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    Yay. :slight_smile: that is great! Congrats!!!
     
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    Hehe thanks heaps guys and yeah i agree, we should be judged on what we do in life and how many peoples lifes we affect not by how we choose to share our life with, Bits dont count when it comes down to love, Its truly whats inside that counts :slight_smile:
     
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    now your getting it :grin: love isnt sex and sex isnt making love:grin: love the person as the body is easyer to change :slight_smile:

    theres nothing more i can teach you apprentice * bows and leaves in mysterious fashion*