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invited a straight friend to a gay club

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by paco, Jun 20, 2009.

  1. paco

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    well, i'm already out, but not everyone knows yet, so heres the story of me telling a friend that hadnt noticed my myspace/facebook status.

    theres a gay club night happening on friday and i really wanted to go, so i asked a straight friend if she would go with me. and she's super excited to go, but she wanted to bring at least one more person in case i got distracted by a hot boy.

    SO we decided to invite J who didnt know that i'm gay. and because i dont like going up to people and saying "hey, i'm gay" we decided to frame it so she could figure it out herself.

    so we went to the park today and J was talking about her boy troubles and M brings up, "oh yeah hey, what are you doing friday? wanna go clubbing with us?"

    and i say "oh yeah you should! and you wont have to worry about stupid boys either! -- its a gay club"

    and J just got really confused

    so we kept playing with her and M finally says says "oh and we need to find paul a hottie"

    and it slowly dawned on J who said "THIS IS AWESOME!!" and "you know whats great? we all like guys :slight_smile:" and, "i'll probably kiss a girl, but i really wanna see you kiss a guy!" -- we kinda just figured out that J might verge on being very slightly bi lol.

    the best part is, now J wants to find me a hottie boyfriend and i have a feeling if anyone could, it would be her lol.
     
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    That is so cool. I wish my friends would be that awsome.
     
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    That's a nice coming out :slight_smile:
     
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    That's a fantastic reaction :slight_smile: I'm glad it worked out so well!
     
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    Wow! Your friends are awesome! Have a great time!
     
  7. paco

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    i know my friends keep making me feel like the world must is becoming a better place over and over...and then the topic of disney channel "singers" comes up :sick: :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    anyway, as it will be my first time at a gay club...or any club for that matter, what are the odds of meeting people? do people just come up and talk to you?
     
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    You gotta be a bit confident (or act it if you aren't at first), and if you see someone you think is cute, just walk over. Talk about the music, American Idol or ask if he wants a drink or what he did this weekend or something.

    Hope it goes(or went well) :grin:
     
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    That is great! Friends who respond like that are one of my favourite things in the world! Congratz!
     
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    You have cool friends!
     
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    I am so jealous!
    Now I wanna take all my straight friends to a gay club [except that one who seems gay and is stealing my confusing gay friend]

    !!!
     
  12. paco

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    i hate when straight people are confusing! thats the worst.
     
  13. BitterEdge

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    aw cute, thats awesome.
     
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    That's a great coming out story. You've got some great friends. Glad that it went so well.
     
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    that is so cool!
     
  16. bob4carl09

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    Is it any different to gay people being confusing?? :slight_smile:

    Good for you tho, have a good time with your awesome friends!
     
  17. paco

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    update, we went to the gay club and had such a seriously good time.. dancing is so much more fun when i dont have be feeling up a girl the whole time - in fact my friend J (who used to have a little crush on me) threatened that if i didnt dance with guys then i would have to dance with her instead lol.

    this was definitely the best idea of the summer so far. next time we're going to the club in downtown disney :grin:
     
  18. dude99

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    that is great:thumbsup:. Like you I am soon going to take a straight friend to a gay club.
     
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    That`s absolutely shawesome...that she wasn't awkward about it or anything! Just dance around with people, and see where it leads you...
     
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    That is cool man!

    I have girl friends who want to go to the gay club with me too. Apparently I'm a "girls best friend", but I'm not THAT nice. LOL. But I think it's great to have open minded friends :slight_smile: