Hi I just come out to someone and she is an ex work friend. I am happy I am out finally to someone and it feels good.:eusa_danc I did not tell her face to face but via text messaging. I decided to open up to her as I read in her facebook profile that she wants to go gay clubbing not so long ago. She admitted to me she might be bisexual after I came out. I plan to soon take her gay clubbing. I admit I did come out to some people a few years ago even to my brother but I felt insecure and embarrased about it and denied it afterwords and mentioned it in a previous thread about it. But my latest coming out I dont at all feel embarrased and feel good.
Yay! Once you tell people and get good reactions it starts getting easier and easier, giving you confidence to tell more people.
Congratulations, I'm glad it went well for you and that you are now feeling more secure about it now.
Thanks for the replies::icon_bigg. Well now my latest coming out will give me confidence to come out to more people.
Update... I just come out to my flatmate. A few days ago I posted a thread on wanting to come out to my flatemate but too scared too. But not so long ago I sent a text message to my flatmate. I have been living with him for 4 years. I said I could be gay in the text. Its the first time I ever came out to him. I just did not have the guts to tell him face to face. I am not home yet but will head home soon. Anyway I was shit scared just before and during the text message to him, but not long after I felt relieved. I have not confronted him yet but will soon. Now I feel like a load off my shoulders have been lift off me. It was not easy living with him and keeping in the closet all that time while living with him. Now things have changed and it be interesting how things work out at home living with him now since I just come out. At least I made that step and should have done that long ago.
Well flatmate knew knew for a long time. Now I am so glad I opened up to him. Now I feel a whole long has lifted off my shoulders. I just spoke to him and he is cool about it.
Yay! Congrats coming out to your flatmate! That's exactly how it felt when I told my parents... except I didn't do it via text message.
Well the reason he knew is because I never brought anyone home at all to shag during my time living with him. Well he is also friends with another friend of mine and he will certainly till him. Well thanks for the replies. Yesterday I could had the chance to come out to someone else at work as a coworker said why I not married, but I did not come out to her as dont feel ready yet to come out to work members. Well I plan to come out soon to my brother but not just yet as he lives far away and only would when he is around. Plus I plan to come out to some more of my friends soon.
