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I'm coming out to a friend.... tonight.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Joe622, Jul 16, 2009.

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  1. Joe622

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    So I already texted a really good friend of mine earlier today asking if she wanted to go out for dinner with me and I told her that I have something really important to tell her. I can't believe I'm gonna go through with this! I've never been so nervous in my life!

    Wish me luck!
     
    #1 Joe622, Jul 16, 2009
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    Oh, definite good luck vibes sent from me! You can do this! And let us how it turns out!
     
    #2 olides84, Jul 16, 2009
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    You'll be happy when you've done it! Best of luck!
     
    #3 jblack, Jul 16, 2009
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    Good luck bud, let us know how it goes :grin:
     
    #4 bob4carl09, Jul 16, 2009
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    Good Luck! I hope everything goes exactly the way you want it too, and, let us know how it goes!
     
    #5 KittyBoy, Jul 16, 2009
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    good luck!
     
    #6 kramer362, Jul 16, 2009
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    Good luck! I hope it all goes great!
     
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    Good luck! :slight_smile:
     
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    good luck joe
     
    #9 crystaltriforce, Jul 16, 2009
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    good luck!
     
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    Good luck! =)
     
    #11 RaRa, Jul 16, 2009
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    best of luck, let us know how it goes.
     
    #12 BitterEdge, Jul 16, 2009
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    Good luck!!
     
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    Dude I'm totally in the same boat as u. Dinner sounds like a good idea. I hope she takes it well. Wish me luck.
     
    #14 jonny, Jul 16, 2009
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    Good luck man! Take a deep breath if you get nervous, and concentrate on just getting the words out. Let us know how it goes. :slight_smile:
     
    #15 Kaim, Jul 16, 2009
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    kudos and good luck! tell us how it goes!
     
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    Good luck :slight_smile:
     
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    Well it went just as I thought it would. I told her that I was gay.. and she said that it didn't change a thing! She had no suspicion either which I actually knew was going to be the case... can't always subscribe to stereotypes. We then started discussing guys and overall it was just a great night and I feel great for the first time in a long time! :grin:

    Thanks for all your support guys! :slight_smile:

    Good luck! Once you get it out you'll feel 10,000 times better!
     
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  19. Joe622

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    Wow.. I just got a follow up text message from her that went something like this:

    So that was the best night ever. PS: I love you... seriously, I'm your biggest fan.

    That really made me smile.. gotta love great friends. :slight_smile:
     
    #19 Joe622, Jul 16, 2009
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    aww thats great congrats :slight_smile:
     
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