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Facebook, Roommates, and Dad's Family

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Nodnarb, Jul 16, 2009.

  1. Nodnarb

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    I've been thinking about doing this for a long time, and over the last few days I finally worked up the courage to do it. I'd like to thank 'Cool Beans' for posting the story about coming out to his future roommate. That story really helped give me the confidence to do this.

    So, I changed my 'interested in' on Facebook (whether anybody will actually look at my profile info to see it is another issue entirely), sent a message to my three future roommates coming out to them, and added more of my cousins. Once they see it, I know it won't take long to get around to everybody on my dad's side of the family. Fortunately, most everybody in his family is pretty liberal, and should be completely fine with it.

    I'm sort of nervous and relieved at the same time. Now I just have to wait to see people's responses.
     
  2. Alex19

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    kudos! im sure everything will b fine.
     
  3. Nodnarb

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    One of my roommates has already messaged me back. His response:

    He and I are sharing a bedroom (there are four of us in a two bedroom suite), so him being ok with it was most important.
     
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    That's awesome, Nodnarb. It just goes to show how we can all inspire each other. :slight_smile:
    I love this community!

    Hope that everything works out for you.
     
  5. Nodnarb

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    Another update: one of my other roommates messaged me back, and he doesn't care either:slight_smile:
     
  6. j1013

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    that is a really brave thing to do! Im happy for you that they are taking it so well. I wish I was as brave as you but things are too far gone for me lol
     
  7. Eleanor Rigby

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    That's great ! Congratulations :slight_smile:
     
  8. Jekko

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    That's sweet. I love how the world progresses.
     
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    Congrats dude like like college is going to be great. You can be u there.
     
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    Congratulations! I hope the other roommate takes it well too!
     
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    Congratulations!!

    I hope it all goes as good as it is going now *fingers crossed*
     
  12. BitterEdge

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    congrats, I am very proud of you!!!!!!
     
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    Way to go, notty nard.
     
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    Congratulations on the positive responses! I'm glad I could help (in my roundabout way) :slight_smile: