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I am flying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Rainbow, Jul 24, 2009.

  1. Rainbow

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    I know I have not been on here in a long time but I feel the need to post what I just did.
    I am in a college transition summer program for July.
    One of the resident directors seemed gay... I have good gaydar :slight_smile:
    He was in LGBT groups on facebook.
    I wrote him a message and explained how I want to come out.
    It was I guess 2 days until I saw him but it was at some hall meeting.
    One day passes.
    Then yesterday I see him at an ice cream social in the lobby.
    He says to me tomorrow we can talk in my office.
    I was freaking out all day.
    Today I see him at pizza party in lobby. I looked kinda sad/tired.
    He saw me and smiled and I smiled back. He was like are you bored and I was like yes. He was like do you want to come talk in office and I nodded. I was so nervous.
    So we went to the office. He told me he was gay and he has a boyfriend. He is in charge of the GSA. I am so excited for september for clubs to begin! I told him how my sister is bi and how I am afraid of parents. I told him a little about me. He said he knows it rough. He said most people are not mean here. There are bout 10 people in club. UGH... I hope I find someone my age to talk to. I cant believe I spoke and said something. I have NEVER talked about my feelings like that before. He was sooo nice. I am happy I did it. My emotions are on a roller coaster now. Right after I told him I felt like I was deeper in closet. But now I feel so free and want to tell more people. But I want to tell other lesbians and I dont know any. I want a group of people. September needs to come fast. I can not believe what just happened!!!!!
    I have more to say to him now. I wanna talk to him one more time before I leave. WOW I DID IIT!
     
  2. Alex19

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    kudos! im planning on attending my GSA at the college im going to. they have about 15 ppl in their group but i dont care. im gonna rock that college!
     
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    Awesome! congrats
     
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    that's awesome! I'm happy for you!
     
  5. Jim1454

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    That's SO awesome!!! Congrats!
     
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    That's fantastic (*hug*) Congrats!
     
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    Congratulations! It's great you had somebody so understanding to talk to for your first coming out.
     
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    Thanks :slight_smile:
    I hope things go uphill from here :slight_smile:
     
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    Kick ass. Hope to see some changes to that info under your avvy in the foreseeable future. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    Grats now if only i could work up to join the GSA at my high school next year xD