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Came out to my best friend

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by JSG, Jul 21, 2007.

  1. JSG

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    So, Monday I came out to my best friend (called Y).
    I never told him because I didn't trust him enough.

    I received an e-mail on Monday from my lover (T) telling me that we couldn't see each other anymore or contact each other and I was heartbroken.

    And Y couldn't understand why I suddenly burst into tears at work, he's never ever seen me cry, so he knew something was up.

    I needed someone to talk to and the other friends I'm out to either weren't available to talk to or don't like discussing that kind of stuff with me, and Y is my closest friend.

    He's been very supportive and now tries to cut back on gay "themed" insults (a lot of French insults are about homosexuality), but I don't mind. He also told me he was curious but wasn't brave enough to try.

    Since then things have gotten better with T and I'm closer to Y than ever before.(!)

    VoilĂ , that's my little coming out story !!
     
  2. Miaplacidus

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    I'm happy for you =) Last night, I came out to some old friends - so now I can really say that I'm out.
     
  3. SpikySpice

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    Hey, that's good J, I'm glad you were brave enough to tell Y.:slight_smile:

    And in the end, you are friend of both guys^^
     
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    Well done JSG. :wink:
     
  5. charlie12

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    Very well done.
     
  6. EthanS

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    well done:thumbsup:
     
  7. downboyup

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    Bon chance! bien sur.
    Vive la France

    A toute a l'heur.
     
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    Awesome:slight_smile::slight_smile:
    Glad he took it welL!:stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  9. jman77

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    felicitations!

    hopefully spelled that right :slight_smile:
     
  10. Sam

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    congrats!