getting outed

i wish i could help, but i'm kinda in the same situation, i dunno if im gay or bi or w/e, but i'm afraid if i say anything that everyone would start calling me things like queer and fag :bang:

 

well, i haven't been called one yet cause i came out by telling my friends first, then i started e-mailing others that i know. then i told my parents yesterday (i feel so relieved they said it was ok). I don't really care if people start calling me a fag. they're just haters! ignore and they would probably stop!^^

 

trust me, people will do everything to break you down, for them to stop is easier said than done.

 

Well, i still wouldn't care. and if they went to beat me up, i would probably try to fight back showing that i'm not scared of them. just my own thoughts.

 

trust me i would fight back, but i'm kinda on the small side

 

what you mean? like you're short? Or what?

 

yeah, i'm short

 

Awww. *huggles* well, i'm sorry. I didn't know. I'm kinda tall, and anyways i specialize on using my feet... so i don't think it would've mattered for me...

 

well yeah, at least you've got that going for you, almost every guy I know is 5' 8" or taller

 

how tall are you? I'm 5'9".

 

i'm almost 5' 7", about 5' 6" and 3/4, something like that, but trust me those couple of inches count...

 

yeah. my best friend is taller than me, but there was never a reason to fight, so we don't. lol. he intimitates me, though. i don't want to fight him, cause i've seen him fight. XP and i don't think my gigantic crush on him'll help with my fighting him if we do. lol.

 

yeah, that would kinda put you in the i don't want to hurt him position.

 

lol. yeah. i love him so much even though i know he'll never return those feelings. I'm ok with it, though. It feels good loving someone and having them know it!^^

 

he knows?

 

yeah, and he's ok with it as long as i don't do anything to him, lol. i confessed to him. the same time i came out to him. lol. he really is a great guy. <3

 

Sugar posted this a while back, but I think it's awesome. When someone calls you a fag or something, just tell em, "You say that like it's a bad thing." :lol:

 

I personally hate the word fag, and so ive told all my friends not to use it around me so they dont which is good....apart from Dion who (knowing that i was gay) said that "all the fags in the world should die"...to which stormed out of the roomm....stupid poo poo head...but i only ever see him oncei n a blue moon...

 

srry to hear that