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Appointment has been made!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Tasha, Sep 3, 2009.

  1. Tasha

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    I have finally at least made a set coffee date to tell my best friend I’m gay. Would’ve preferred just a random by the way in regular conversation but that girl has way too many friends that encircle her regularly. Now it is a set thing that by tomorrow she will know cause I said it’s important and we need to have a heart to heart. It’s going to be SO awkward but it must be done.

    Any advise, this is a big step for me, besides my parents she’s the only person I care about knowing, if she’s ok with it any one can know and I’ll be fine. I’ve accepted the alternative of maybe losing a friendship but I’m hoping for the best.

    Thoughts to ease the problem or at least how to start the conversation?
    I am so nauseous right now, no way I'm gonna sleep tonight!
     
  2. malachite

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    :goodluck:Well, I hope all goes well for you. I know how it felt when I told my close friends. Good Luck
     
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    1st: :goodluck:
    2nd: How long have we had the :goodluck: emote? because I dont remember it.
    3rd: it should be animated...:stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  4. melissalouise

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    Yay. I was a party last night and we were all drunk and we were talking about sex and I said something along the lines of I don't think sex with guys is nice and my friend turns to me and says YOU REALLY ARE A LESBIAN AREN'T YOU and I was like basically :slight_smile:
    I mean YAY FOR YOU!!
     
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    cool good job
     
  6. Yay! Let us know how it goes!! I'm sure it will be great.

    PS: Welcome to EC, I haven't seen you around yet! I'm Megan.
     
  7. napoleonri85

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    Good luck :slight_smile: Let us know how it goes!