Hey guys so I have told 2 friends so far (girls) and I asked one of them to tell her boyfriend (we're like the 3 musketeers haha). He's from France and he's also very liberal and down to earth so I'm sure it'll be fine. Tomorrow the 3 of us are going to join my school's GSA! I'm finding it less and less scary to embrace who I am, and my philosophy is that the friends who matter don't mind and the ones that mind don't matter. Hope all goes well tomorrow! Just thought I'd share Nick :smilewave
Congrats, and best of luck to you!! (!) And, it sounds like you have some awesome friends! :eusa_danc
That's fantastic! Great that you are feeling increasingly comfortable with yourself and around others! Hope the GSA meeting went well and it was what you were expecting.
The GSA meeting went great and I'm kind of on a roll now haha I told 2 more people (girls). They're theater people and they're in the gsa also so they were actually happy about it haha. I actually didn't tell everyone in the gsa though yet, because I freeze up around gay issues with my guy friends and my friend Ben was there...? So I gotta figure out if he just got dragged there by our mutual friend Leah (who's very pro-gay) or if he's gay! that could be very interesting..hehe Another reason I'm hesitant though is there were two people there that I do not have good relations with at all, and even if one or both of them is gay I do not trust that they would keep it a secret if i told the gsa...but we'll see, maybe they'll drop out or maybe i'll get to the point where I don't mind if everybody knows. To RaeofLite I definitely recommend going to a gsa meeting!! Even though I was so nervous I almost crapped myself it was such a relief to know that there were 20 or so more people that will support me, and some are possibly gay so all in all very good reasons to go!!! I also feel so much closer to all the people I've come out to. It's like we've reached a new level of trust, because I've told them my deepest secret and they've accepted it with open arms. I'll keep you guys updated. Nick
That's really, really great. I'm glad that coming out has been a positive experience for you. I am sorry, though, that you don't feel completely comfortable in the GSA due to those two kids. Is talking to them about it out of the question?
Yeah I think it might be out of the question which sucks. But hey there's another gsa meeting tomorrow and maybe they dropped out, I'll see. I don't even know what I did to the girl but she loathes me...and her boyfriend hates me by association i guess.
