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I've done it

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Calli, Sep 15, 2009.

  1. Calli

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    Hey guys! It's done. :eusa_clap I fanaly told my parents and my brothers. With my brothers it realy wnt fine. One of them told me just ok it's your choice and whent back on watching tv and the other one just laught and then told me something like remember it's always no without a condom( that was quite dum). For my parents I think they were in chock and didn't realy take me seriously at first buit I had to do some explaning and then they were ok. The only thing is that I think my dad is realy afraid for me that i will be categorise by other and reject by them. Well it was a bit weard but I don't realy care. At the end of our conersation they bot told me that they love me no matter what. There comportement with me haven't change so I'm pretty happy about it.(*hug*)

    Yey!!!(!)(!)
    :eusa_danc
     
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    Congratulations on coming out to your parents and brothers. That's awesome! :slight_smile:
    Sometimes, it takes a while for parents to adjust, but it seems that your parents are already there, which is fantastic! :slight_smile:
     
  3. BitterEdge

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    congrats, so proud of you!
     
  4. Jim1454

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    Good news! Congratulations!

    (don't forget to change your 'out status'!)
     
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    Yay! Congrats!!!! :grin:
     
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    Congrats. I hate it, btw, when the response is "that's your choice." Show me the choice, please. (Not the choice to lie, come out, deny, hide, fake, etc.)
     
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    congrats :slight_smile:
    i need courage.
     
  8. Calli

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    yeah your right this is wath I told him but at leats he is not freak out or anythings. And thank you guys so much for your support.
    Calli(*hug*)
     
  9. Calli

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    Don't worry it will come. You will come up with the courage. Don't forget that your true friends and your family are suppose to love you no matter what. they may need a little time to adjust but thay will come arounf it. If you need any help or you want to talk about it I'm all ears
     
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    Congratulations! That's really awesome :grin:
     
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    cool yeah parents dreams about there kids falling in love with a perfect women and having grandkids
     
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    Congratulations ! :slight_smile:
     
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    It's always great to hear when parents are accepting like yours =]
     
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    Congratulations :slight_smile: This is a big step and it sounds like it went quite well. I'm sure your parents will adjust fine. I'm proud of you :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats! You've got what most people would consider the hardest group out of the way now. (!)
     
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    woo for you!!!!!!

    glad it worked out
     
  17. kyvoice

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    Congrats!!!