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Do u think he knows?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by x2x2x2x2y2, Oct 16, 2009.

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  1. x2x2x2x2y2

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    Well my older sis has a bf and they've been together for like 10 years so I've known him since I was like 5 or 6. Anyways a few days ago I had my 16th bday and ever since that day he's been texting me a bunch of nude girl pics. At first I thought it was kinda funny but he seriously started sending them like every hour! So I text him telling him not send them to me cuz my mom has my phone alot. He said ok and sorry. Now about an hour ago he did it again, so I text him and told him seriously please don't send that stuff to me. He hasn't text me back. I have a few other examples of y he might know: a few months ago I spent the nite at my sis and his house and rite b4 I was about to leave he tried to give me a straight Porno. I was frozen. Lol I just kinda shook my head. I had no idea what to say. He was just kinda like "here!" and I just said "uummmmm no thanks" I could tell he was kinda surprised. He asked me if I was sure and I just said ya. He said he would try again later. (in my head I was kinda like geez leave me alone! Lol) I must admit I'm not all that straight acting. I don't like sports, I don't talk about girls, I'm very quiet and to myself. I have a strange feeling he's noticing. I havent seen him since b4 my bday. I thought about texting him and telling him y I didn't want the pics, but I'm kinda afraid. Lol I'm not sure how he would take it. I kinda think he would be ok with it cuz he's pretty nice and open minded. We r like brother cuz we've known each other for a long time. Idk what do u guys think? Thanks in advance!
     
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  2. -Michael-

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    This actually sounds like harassment.

    But i won't go there.


    Just tell him to stop.
    Or you'll tell your sister what he's doing or something.

    But i don't think he thinks your gay.

    You just sound very paranoid.
     
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    ^ i agree on telling your sis if he keeps on as i jsut find it creepy... :S

    i would of got pissed off by now though and jsut gone " i dont want it ...take teh hint!"

    but kudos on not going ape on him...

    i hope he stops that as it can be really awkward and saddening :frowning2:
     
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  4. x2x2x2x2y2

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    @-Michael- no it's nothing like that. I know he means well.
     
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    @just Adam like I told -Michael- it's nothing like that. Ya it has gotten akward, especially when he tried to give me the Porno. I just think he knows how horny he was at my age. Lol
     
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    I think the line was drawn between just wanting to help you out and harassment back when he sent those pictures after you told him to stop. Go tell your sister about this. At very least, he'll stop what he's doing.

    Also, I agree with the others -- I don't think he thinks you're gay. If he does, however, that isn't your big worry; his pushing porn onto you after that it implying he wants to "fix" it or something equally ridiculous, and you shouldn't have to live with that later on.
     
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    I don't find it creepy at all. Because once you said that he's like an older brother to you, everything in my mind changed. I mean, my older brother had fun trying to corrupt me with porn :slight_smile:

    So you could just keep saying 'no' if he does it again, but it sounds like you're more wondering if this could be a nice excuse to come out to someone. Only you can answer the who and the when, etc. But finding someone who is open-minded and always has your back is a good start.
     
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    I agree with @olides84 I think he's just "looking out for me". He doesn't know I'm gay, so for all he knows I'm loving all the pics. I honestly think he sent me the pics again cuz he thought I meant for him to stop just yesterday. As for the coming out part, like I said he seems understanding. Idk Im most likely to chicken out if I were to try.
     
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    I think if he sends me more after this I will go to my sis. I'm pretty sure he wil stop after that. That's gonna be one akward conversation with my sis. Lol
     
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    if you dont want him to send you the pics i think you should go to him and tell him that you aprriacte the effort he is spending but you would rather him not sending you the pics. you can tell him that you are already an adept at finding them yourself ofc it would probably be men but you can leave that out :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #10 Steve, Oct 16, 2009
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