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Came out to my mum today!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by grapevine fires, Oct 24, 2009.

  1. grapevine fires

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    I came out to my mum today. I've been thinking about it for a while, and I figured that it would be a good time to come out now because I have a girlfriend. (I haven't told her that yet...)

    I'm so happy that I have the friends I do... I asked my best friend to come over to help me do this, and he was absolutely fantastic. He told me what I should say, and what to do and stuff, and supported me the whole way through. He's been there for a lot of his other friends who have come out in the past...

    I told my mum that I wanted to talk to her, as she was getting ready for a nap (she's sick, but I wanted to do it anyway; it's just one of those things..) and it went really well. The climax was crazy, I was almost crying, and then I told her, and... it was so easy :slight_smile:. She told me that no matter what, she loved me, and she accepted me (unless it was something negative, like if I was going to tell her that I was pregnant or something). I'm glad I told her, and I'm so glad that my friend had my back. It's easier to breathe now, and I don't have to hide things... like the fact that the youth group I go to is, in fact, for people in the LGBT community.

    My next step is introducing mum to my girlfriend (whom she's already met, but not with that title :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:)
     
  2. Mickey

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    Another great story. I love it! Your mom was wonderful. I wish everyone had such a positive experience. I'm sure,by sharing your story,that you'll help others be less afraid and more apt to at least think about coming out. Thanks for sharing this.
     
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    Congratulations (!)
     
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    Congratulations! It's great that your mum had such a great response! That's awesome! :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats. It's great that it went so well, and that your mum is so supportive. That you know you have such a good friend is a great thing as well.
     
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    Woo Hoo for the supportive mum! Congratulations!
     
  7. LeonaRose

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    Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!!!! *hugs* This makes me smile =']
     
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    Congrats! I'm glad it went well.
     
  9. Eleanor Rigby

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    Congratulations (*hug*) I am happy everything went well for you :slight_smile: