So, I've been crushing on this guy for more than a year (almost two actually). I've been thinking of coming out to him for quite a while, but I never had the courage to do it. I finally did it earlier tonight with a (drunk) text message (I didn't tell him about the crush and I'll never do it) Now we're chatting on MSN and he seems to be fine with it, he said he wouldn't say anything and apparently it wasn't a big deal. I'm really happy now just because I told him, even if I still have that big crush on him and it will never go anywhere.
Hey congratulations! That was a brave step! (I'm sorry I hadn't seen this thread when I posted on your wall =P)
Thanks guys! I've seen him and everything seems the same. However, I wanna talk about it when we're alone (something that hasn't happened yet since I came out). I'm really not going to tell him about the crush, ever. He's completely straight and telling him would only ruin the friendship.
i came out to my crush and then about a year later i told him in a very confusing text to hide the true motives, (along the line on if i knew someone who likes you but doesnt what to tell you because their not your "type" would you want me to tell you), his response was i kinda figured you have liked me for a while now...he said that things wherent gonna change and blah, and to a level it hasnt, but it could just be in my head and not really there, but it has kinda changed... dont know if that will help you or not im sorry but congrats on telling him
