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Really cant believe it.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Jiggles, Nov 15, 2009.

  1. Jiggles

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    I have just came out to my dad! He just burst into my room crying saying that he's all right and so long as I am happy thats what matters! All we done was cuddle for something like 5 minutes! Dunno what to do now! :confused:
     
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    That's great! Congrats! :grin:
     
  3. Kevin42

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    That is wonderful! Congrats!
     
  4. Eleanor Rigby

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    Congratulations :slight_smile: That's wonderful
     
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    Your dad sounds like an amazing person... You're lucky man.. VERY lucky.. Congratulations on another member coming out of the closet. =)
     
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    Its a bit of an anti-climax at times after you've come out, isn't it?
    You go through all that effort trying to tell your parents about it, and then it's all been over-dramatized in your head, and it's fine and all.
     
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    :slight_smile: *hug* Great to hear. Let them know you're here if they have further questions.... and basically go on with life yourself.

    It's such a relief to be yourself (especially with close family and friends) so you don't have to constantly cover your lies and tracks.
     
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    Congratulations on coming out to your dad! That's awesome! :slight_smile:

    Really good and supportive reactions take us by surprise too. Say thanks to your dad for being so supportive. Just take it all in and continue being yourself. Glad that it went so well for you.
     
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    ok im happy for you
    but im confused
    you came out to your dad then he burst into the room? wait how ?? did you teel him then?
     
  10. Jiggles

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    DOH! Missed out a bit of info. I gave him a letter. Yeh the chickens way of doing it but it worked!
     
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    Hey - whatever works. I'm glad it went well. Congrats!
     
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    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I'm glad that it went well and you have a dad who accepts you no matter who you are.

    (*hug*)
     
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    Awesome mate! :slight_smile: Doing it through a letter isn't the chickens way at all. It can be easier when you now emotion will overtake you and it gets all the pertinent information out there! Well done!
     
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    haha well done, there's nothing wrong with a letter.

    i told most of my friends by getting other people to tell them lol, i reckon that's more pussy.
     
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    I told my parents through a letter too, so we're the same in that aspect.
    I'm too damn nervous to face up to it and just come out to them one day, instead I just left them a letter of my thoughts and feelings on the situation.
     
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    Congratulations. You're lucky to have your dad that you have. ^^
     
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    im really glad you dad accepts you that is really cool.