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A sort of coming out story

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by tayana, Aug 18, 2007.

  1. tayana

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    I've been working on coming out to my son, and I didn't quite come out, but it was very close, and the conversation was a little funny.

    I was teasing him about having a crush on his teacher . . .

    Son, a little shyly: I do sometimes have crushes on girls.
    Me: You do?
    Son: Yep

    I forget what I asked next, something along the lines of why do you have crushes?

    Son: Well, how else am I going to find someone to marry and have kids?
    Me, poking at the subject again: What if I had a crush on a girl?
    Son: I wouldn't care, but only boys and girls can get married.
    Me, deciding the opportunity was too good to pass up: What if I wanted to marry a girl?
    Son, in the best line of the night: Well, go ahead, but you won't get a baby. You have to have a man to get a baby. (enter description of how babies are made)
     
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    how old is your son?
     
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    Cute tanya, kids are so innocent. Good luck mate!
     
  4. tayana

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    He's 10 and immature for his age.
     
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    ok. I was just wondering. Kids get subjected to stereotypes very fast. The get taught in school to be homophobic in some ways.
     
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    lol I wouldnt expect a 10 year old to be very mature anyways. XD
     
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    congrats!