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came out to best friends

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by darthmalik14, Aug 19, 2007.

  1. darthmalik14

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    so exactly a week ago i came out to my best friends. i had been trying to come out to my only guy best friend but he had been in europe for the past 3 weeks and i was going to tell him, but he couldnt call me back so i had to leave it at that. so last sunday all my girl best friends where online, so i decided to tell them and move on to the harder one who is my guy best friend. so i just told one of them and she was like, "mateo i really dont care, cause i know your still going to be the same with the snorts and over protectiveness of us."
    that was one of them the other one just made me laugh she was all like "awww thats soo cute!!! omg this is soo cool"
    and the other two where like "omg this is a shocker, mateo the macho dude gay!:eek: " but they where happy none the less, they now want for me to go with them to the mall to "ogle hotties"
    so on monday my best friend came back from london and i was waiting for him to get home. i know how could i drop taht bomb on him all jetlagged! but i had to. so i just tell him and he asks me "are you sure you want to spend the rest of your life with a man?", ofcourse i do. and then he goes "you know its a guys universal phobia that their gay friends are going to hit on them" i just cracked up and told him that he was my bestfriends and that i would never do that.
    but yeah its been a great week since i came out to them and im just so happy!! not that im never happy, hyper is more like it but its all good
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  2. thats awesome, Im glad it went so well for you!
     
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    Awwww! That's so great! Congrats dude!^^ And welcome to EC! Call me Gera-Kun if you wish!^^
     
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    thanks you guys. its been great to come out, huge load off myself
     
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    that's so cool you had the courage to do it...
     
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    Wow, taht's is so awesomely awsome, friend! Congratulation:icon_bigg :eusa_clap

    Gera-Kun, hey, taht sounds like your friend K-Kun huh:slight_smile:
     
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    congratz bet your glad some of the weight has been lifted good luck !!!!
     
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    oh yeah, and my girl best friends cant wait to take me out down the shore to check out guys, and now i can tell them about the guys at my school. they say im just much more fun. my guy bestfriend is still getting used to it
     
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    It's an Honorific...Kun is to buy friends, Chan is for female friends, little kids, and lovers, and lots other honorifics. i love using them with my friends! ^^
     
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    Wow feel good to be out dont it
     
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    Congrats bud!
     
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    thats great congrats!
     
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    Congrats on have such accepting friends. Enjoy being out!
     
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    Great story and congratulations. You have some awesome friends. When I came out to my best girl friend, she took me right to the next gay bar (like I was desperate to hook up) :lol: Girls are like that I guess. :thumbsup:
     
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    And how! You wouldn't believe how desperate girls in my school are for gay friends. They practically flock to me. :thumbsup:
     
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    I think some girls like having gay guy friends because they know it's just friends, and that the guy is not after anything more.
     
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    that true, all the girls i tried to get to go out with me (i was in denial, long story) would most of the time end up being like sisters to me, and they trust me with lots of their secrets. but yeah one of my best friends wants to hook me up with one of her other friends
     
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    Thats really great Mateo !!
    Congrats on coming out !!! Your friends sound really nice. One of my friends reacted the same way "I don't care !!" twas.. kindof awkward, but nice :slight_smile: