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Oh the wonders of the Internet....

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by peaceloverugby, Dec 30, 2009.

  1. peaceloverugby

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    So this is my coming out story. I've known I'm gay for as long as I can remember, and I never felt the need to tell anyone, especially once I realized that some people (well, alot of people here in Missouri) aren't accepting of it.

    I did, however, feel the need for support and friendship with people who could understand me. I joined a social networking site run by the Trevor Project, and met this wonderful boy named Jason. He lives close to me and I wanted to know all about him, and he just happened to have a Twitter and suggested I make one too. So, in my infinite stupidity, I created a Twitter, put my picture on it, and began tweeting my love for the first boy I could be open with.

    Well, I started to hang out with Jason, and my dad got suspicious because I guess I'm not what you'd call out going. Anyways, he Googled Jason's name, found his Twitter, and found my Twitter along with it. This whole time, I'm at school. When I get home, he takes me into his bedroom with my mom and tells me that he knows. *Insert the three of us crying here* Then he says something I will never forget; I can still quote it from memory, three months later. He said, "I may not understand, I may not like it, and it may not be what I want for you. But at the same time, I know you're my son, and I will love you forever, unconditionally. And I will try my best to understand. You're still my son, and the only thing that has changed is now I know something about you I didn't know this morning."

    So that's my story. I knew I had a pretty good dad before this, but I just didn't know how good :slight_smile:
     
  2. Echidna1

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    (*hug*)
    I doubt my dad would ever do anything like that but a friend of mine was totally accepting, when in all reality I thought he'd be the friend I'd lose when I came out.
     
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    (*hug*)

    Seriously....that moved me to tears. My mom reacted much like that when I came out, so I know that feeling. But to have your father say that....wow :eusa_clap
     
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    You have a grat dad! My dad reacted the same way when I came out to him.
     
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    wow, that gave me chills. good chills! such a great story. i'm happy for you :slight_smile:
     
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    You're so lucky. He's not trying to change you but he's going to try to understand with time. Congrats. :grin: (*hug*)
     
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    Ahh... stories like yours restore my hope in this world. I am so glad your dad still loves you.
    :slight_smile:
     
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    kudos to daddy!
     
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    That's great! My parents responded in the same way, and it makes all the difference in the world. Congrats!
    (*hug*)
     
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    congrads on crossing that hurdle... it doesnt make me loathe twitter any less though.

    anything worth saying is not worth cramming into 140 characters. everyone knows 450 is better... YAY FACEBOOK!
     
  11. Flare

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    Brilliant response from your dad. You are very lucky. :slight_smile:
     
  12. Mirko

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    You have a great dad and what a great response! Glad it went so well.