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done lying...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by i need help, Jan 6, 2010.

  1. i need help

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    at work the other day i changed my headline on facebook to "is gay" (gotta love facebook mobile) and when i got home changed my interests to men...not planning on making a big production about it but if they ask im gonna tell them what up...and i talked to someone at work about it today and he was very cool about it and im glad i talk to him...ahhh...still really nervous...
     
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    Aw I remember that feeling... Just breathe and relax. You might even get some supportive messages. :slight_smile: Congrats.
     
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    thank you i have had a few people use the "like button" not much else...but hey better than hate mail right...

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    I mostly game out to friends on messenger or in person so it was a bit more conversational but I'm glad you've been brave. You will start to feel as if a "real" weight has lifted off your shoulders. It can be an incredible high in a way (even if some react negatively) it'll feel better to not have to lie all the time. :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats! (*hug*) Here's hoping reactions will keep being good.
     
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    Very good! Congrats!
     
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    Congratulations!
     
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    Congrats! :eusa_clap
     
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    Congratulations, I wish I had the courage to do that.
     
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    Congratulations.:thumbsup: That was totally brave of you and I’m sure the positive will completely out weight the negative. Just hang in there and stay positive.:icon_bigg
     
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    Congratulations! :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats!!!! (!)
     
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    Great job! :thumbsup:

    I did the same. It's much heasier than individually coming out to everyone.