I debated posting again in the thread I posted a few days ago about an unplanned coming out (link http://www.emptyclosets.com/forum/showthread.php?t=31104) but I decided to start a new thread as an update. I stopped by his place on my way home from work tonight, and after talking for awhile he asked me if I would care for something to drink. He offered me a choice of a couple of different beers, or a mixed drink. Since I was was planning to drive home tonight, and that I also have to work tomorrow I said "I'm kinda in the mood for a Penis Colada" He started to unbuckle his belt and then said .. "comming right up" He makes a wicked penis colada (!) (!) I think the ICE has now been broken. :icon_wink