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OMG! The worst way to come out to your mother!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by juliensaurusrex, Jan 29, 2010.

  1. juliensaurusrex

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    This is a true story. my story more or less.



    I remmeber, I was having a horrible day at school. One of the worst! And I called my mom at her job and begged her to pick me up because I HATE MY SCHOOL!!! And she asked me why. I told her, "I don't want to talk about it here. This isn't the place or time!" And she said she wasn't going to pick me up if I didn't give her a good reason why. (note that about a year before this I had a confusion conversation with my mom). I told her it was about my feelings. I was crying to the max because of the day I was having. She asked me if it was feelings about boys. In the time that all this was happening, people were passing me by starring at me as I sobbed my sexuality to my mom on the phone. It's a fever to tell and a day never to forget.
     
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    My condolences. (*hug*)
     
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    You're very welcome. :thumbsup:
     
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    Aw. Hang in there dude. :frowning2: (*hug*) It'll get better. If you just come out to her (I'm sure she suspects by now if you haven't already) things should turn out ok. Get in touch with a close GSA (Gay/Straight Alliance), PFLAG or organizations in your area.
     
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    Hahaha I'm out. And yeah I need to find one. Thats kind of why I joined this site. Hoping to just chat with others and make new friends eh? btw I love lady gaga
     
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    You'll be fine! :grin:
    School can be absolutely brutal to some, but the nice thing about school is it does end eventually. Remember you're there for school, nothing else.
     
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    Wanted to add more, but had to run off for a bit:

    How did your mother take it? It sounded like she already suspected, at least.
     
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    Ouch. That's rough.

    But it's at least overwith now - so congrats! And welcome to the site!
     
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    Wow - but no matter how it happened, it's over and done and out of the way. I hope your mom took the news well! And it will leave you with a most interesting story to tell later on! :thumbsup:
     
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    Aww, I really hope you're doing alright (*hug*)

    I hope your mom is cool about it :slight_smile:
     
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    She accepts it. I'm fine, she's fine. And she just wants me to love someone who loves me back no matter who it is.
     
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    I'd say your mother is awesome, but that wouldn't do her justice. She's a keeper! :thumbsup:
     
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    Good luck at your new school. Keep us posted on how that goes.
     
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    (*hug*)(*hug*)That does seem a bit harsh the way you had to tell her but atleast it's done and out of the way forever. You are incredibly lucky that she is ok with it. You have an amazing mother..congrats on both that and coming out to her and good luck with school :thumbsup: