I'm basically at out at University, but its still sort of "hush hush" being a Christian college and all. Anyway, I don't really have to bother coming out much, because my friends usually do the dirty work for me. I know that sounds bad, but it wasn't ever my intention. Its just that its just how it works out. Anyway, a good guy friend of mine has made a lot of pro-gay comments for a while now. Even if he didn't make those kind of remarks I'd want him to know. I don't like beating around the bush. So, this coming out has been long past do. Now, I'm just waiting for a response.
yay! the hard is over..and if he made pro-gay comments he will probably be cool with it. (and don't worry about your friends doing the dirty work, I think that how I lot of people end up coming out...to every person personally would take a whole lifetime!)