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It's small, but it's something. =)

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by RaRa, May 7, 2010.

  1. RaRa

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    So I was walking to the bookstore at my college with my friend. Asked her how her weekend was, she said good. Then she asked me how I was. I told her I went to a gay bar on Saturday. She's a theater major so I thought she'd take it well. Well, she did. :slight_smile: Her first words were "how hot were the guys there?" Then I asked her did you ever think I was gay. She said she thought it but didn't want to ask me to appear rude. If you ask me it's actually easier if people just ask. <_< Well that was that and she wants me to invite her next time. :slight_smile:

    Feels good. xD
     
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    Awww Yay!
    And it's so true about it being easier if people just ask :lol:
     
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    "It's small, but it's something" — That's What She Said.

    Yay Raffi! :grin:
    I like when people ask. It's easier that way but they never seem to.
     
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    Good for you. I think I might still freak a bit if someone asked. I'm still getting used to the people I've come out to saying "no surprise there, Mike.":lol:

    Peace,
     
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    Very good. It's so great to get to a point where you can simply talk about your personal life without all the filtering! Good for you!
     
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    kudos! gotta love awesome friends :slight_smile:
     
  7. RaRa

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    Indeed. :grin: Thanks all!

    Just a small update. This morning in Philosophy class our main topic was cute guys in the class, and we both agreed the marine that sits near us takes the cake. :lol:

    Jims right that it's a great feeling. :slight_smile:
     
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    Where is a "Like" button when you need it? lol

    That's awesome man, Good Job!
     
  9. malachite

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    you say it's small, I say its a big step.

    Rock on!!!!!!!!!

    seriously, take the victories where you can get 'em :wink:
     
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    aww, congrats raffe :grin:
     
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    Congrats! Awesome friend!