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I think i effectively came out to my entire class.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by xCrazyInsanity, Jun 26, 2010.

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  1. xCrazyInsanity

    xCrazyInsanity
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    Through facebook, none the less.

    friend 1: Kyle looks like a creeper
    friend 2: Yep she does [she!?? moving on.]
    me: yeah i know eff off.
    friend 3: Language young lady
    me: I ish no lady
    friend 2: WTF?
    me: think about it... actually just message me we'll see if you can figure it out spelled out
    [pic comments go on, people being weirdos naming trucks in the background]

    friend 2[messages]: ok whats the dealio
    me: take a guess i dress like a boy and wear boy clothes
    friend 2: just spell it out.
    me: I'm not gay im trans
    (A)
    [sidenote, yes i'm a dork]
    friend 2: you could have just said it thats what i thought


    :eusa_doh:
    One thing I forgot.
    She's a gossip.
    It will have gotten to the 'top' girls in the next week(we all know the type. Queen bee popular). And by the end of the month everyone will know "Gwyn's a tranny! Let's get it!"

    fuuuuuuucccccccckkkkkkkkkk

    I realize this is like piss in a pool - it won't come out - but is there any way to do anything or do I just need to pay more attention in my self defense class and leave the closet door open?
     
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  2. theJosephDean

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    Well, if they find out and someone comes to ask you about it, trying to lie and continue keeping it a secret will only make them think it's true anyway. I'm not saying it'll be easy - because it'll definitely be hard - but I think it's just best to either not give any solid answer, or just go for it. If you spent a lot of time trying to keep your true self a secret, it'll be much harder for you to come out in the future. I fought like hell in high school to keep my sexuality a secret (though many rumours were spread >.<), so when I did come out, it was that much more difficult to me personally.

    Do what you think will be better in the long run :3

    Oh, and (*hug*). I think everyone could use one of those today :slight_smile:
     
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    Yeah. Lying isn't the best way to go about it, and it's pretty obvious I don't like being refered to as a girl or anything. Paranoid I guess [but i'm paranoid about a lot of things]

    (*hug*) thanks. i actually do need one. other stuff's going on besides this
     
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    Leave the closet door open ... anyone who disses you for it obviously has not taste!
     
    #4 Jay D, Jun 26, 2010
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    Also, this ^

    :slight_smile:
     
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    I just want to publicly apologise to the original poster, since I completely accidentally called him by the wrong name. Kyle, I apologise for calling you the wrong name/gender. I hope you forgive me.
     
    #6 Jay D, Jun 26, 2010
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