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Finally was able to spit it out.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by seth381, Jul 6, 2010.

  1. seth381

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    I'm happy I finally came out to someone I choose my cousin as the first she and I have been friends almost like brother and sister forever. I was at a family get together on the 4th and was going to say something to her there then but chickened out. I did the thing everyone says no to do push yourself and I did and worked out well for me. I texted her and said I need to tell ya something and told her she can't say anything for a while. I simply said it and I had so many thoughts running through my mind before I sent the message. It felt like her response took forever but when I got it I was happy she said it was okay and that a lot of people are gay and she'd never judge me for an affiliation such as this. I actually had fun her questions kept me laughing for the 3 hrs we talked ones like do you look up porn and how long you've known. The porn one was so great she asked "Do you look at guy porn ?" I said "Well to be simple yea but that isn't very specific."
     
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    Congratulations on coming out to your cousin! It's awesome that you were able to come to her! Glad that it went so well for you! :slight_smile:
     
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    Good for you! I like how she was willing to ask questions and talk about it beyond simply knowing you're gay. Asking the porn questions and such. :wink:
     
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    yea it was nice to know she wanted info but even though I trust her it still made me shake for at least an hour after I told her.
     
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    that is great...I always love when people have the long convos after you come out...that is how many of my favorite coming out moments have been...It is great how accepting she is and ho interested she is in your "gayness" haha
     
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    Congrats! It does seem like an eternity while awaiting a response! So glad you did it!
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    I am still working on my cousins!
     
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    why are you still working on your cousins ? It's odd though I pushed myself to tell her but haven't told anyone yet I keep thinking of being out to everyone before school starts again.
     
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    Gratz on coming out to ur cousin!!
     
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    Congratulations for telling your cousin :slight_smile: