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Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Ilayis, Sep 17, 2007.

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  1. Ilayis

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    I wrote my dad over a week ago and told him since I was supporting him when he gets outta prison I wanted him to support me in coming out to other family members(In the letter I came out to him for the second time).I've been eagerly awaiting his letter back,and today I got it,this is what he had to say."Ryan,I appreciate you supporting me,as for supporting you,I don't have a problem with your sexual preference anymore.I was just in denial at first.Ryan,when a person is raised a certain way for 40 yrs,change is a hard thing.This whole bisexual stuff is new to me.The whole society is changing fast but I'm still struggling to catch up(you can't fault me for that0.So again,you are my blood and I'll support you no matter what you do.":slight_smile:

    I'm so happy right now!I'm proud that I told him,and proud of him for accepting me!
     
    #1 Ilayis, Sep 17, 2007
  2. sngl

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    Wow! That's so cool! I'm really happy for you :thumbsup:
     
    #2 sngl, Sep 17, 2007
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    See Ryan I told you!:slight_smile:

    He would be shocked at firts and got mad at you, but through time he understood and accpected you! I think the whole prison thing made him reallize taht he is wrong because he had to sit everyday to think about what he did

    Aww, I feel so happy for you(*hug*)

    Well, so now you 've got a supporter, so I hope your comming out will be easier, remember that tiem is what you need :slight_smile:
     
    #3 SpikySpice, Sep 17, 2007
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    Yay!! Congrats dude! That's awesome! :slight_smile:

    GL with the rest of your family! :goodluck:
     
    #4 CorporalPie, Sep 17, 2007
  5. Ilayis

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    (*hug*) (I just realized this is the second thread I've made involving something great coming out of a person who was doin time)Time is being very good to me right now YAY thanx people,hey maybe this will help somebody else come out!that would be great
     
    #5 Ilayis, Sep 17, 2007
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    Congrats! That has to feel really good!
     
    #6 Jim1454, Sep 17, 2007
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    Congrats! I'm glad everything seems to be working out for you... that's the way it should be!
     
    #7 winter89, Sep 17, 2007
  8. Tom

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    woo glad 2 see things r workin out for u
     
    #8 Tom, Sep 18, 2007
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    :thumbsup: (!) :eusa_danc :icon_bigg :eusa_clap :icon_bigg :eusa_danc (!) :thumbsup:
     
    #9 TriBi, Sep 18, 2007
  10. JSG

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    Alright !!!
    The fact that your dad was (possibly) raised in non gay-friendly environment and still understands you and accepts you is great !!!
     
    #10 JSG, Sep 18, 2007
  11. greyundrstndng

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    Congrats!!!(*hug*)
     
    #11 greyundrstndng, Sep 18, 2007
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    Excellent news - congratulations! :slight_smile:
     
    #12 Paul_UK, Sep 18, 2007
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    yay *hugs*
     
    #13 Grof142007, Sep 18, 2007
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    That's great news and is going to make supporting your Dad a whole lot easier ... for both of you.

    Congratulations
     
    #14 Beachdreamer, Sep 18, 2007
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    Thats fantastic(*hug*) :eusa_clap :eusa_danc :thewave:frowning2:!) (!!)
     
    #15 Kibuki kid, Sep 18, 2007
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    Awesome news! I'm so happy for you!
     
    #16 beckyg, Sep 18, 2007
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    :eusa_clap That's great! :thumbsup:
     
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    WAHOOH...ur a ROCKSTAR!!:thumbsup:
     
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    Great news. I hope you and your dad the best. Hope the rest of the family is as accepting.
     
    #19 Hydrogen, Sep 20, 2007
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    Great news!! That is worthy of the official dancing banana. (!)
     
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