Well was out yesterday with a group of friends from work. Was a pretty good day and then at one point found myself alone with a woman who I am quite good friends with. After talking about some random stuff the conversation went along the line's of her saying "I think you know what i am going to ask you?". Me "yeah I can guess go for it!" Her "Well it's what everyone keeps talking about and wondering, and you never give anything away one way or the other, so are you gay?". By this point in other conversations I have changed the subject or made up some lie. Second I never realised I was such a hot topic of conversation:lol:. My answer "yeah, of course!". I don't know why I added the of course bit in:lol: The next couple of minutes we talked a bit and she was extremely supportive. Then were interrupted, she done well to change the conversation and make it look as if we were talking about something else. Anyway hope to see her in the next few day's and finish the conversation. It's not much but it is a start and it feels great to be open to some extent.
congrats! the more you go, the easier it gets. I had sat down today and made a list of all the people i've come out to. I was shocked at how many people knew. And I know I've told more but I couldn't think of everyone. Yay for you!
Nice job! Good for you. It feels so good to finally take that conversation down that path instead of laughing and changing the subject.
Just a bit of an update. Saw the woman mentioned earlier again today and had a great conversation that relay made me see things in a whole different light. At the end of it all the outcome was try not to think too much and live life a little without the worry. Personally at the moment I feel proud to be who I am and have a future ahead of me for the first time in a number of years. There are many difficult situations ahead, but so be it!
Thanks again guys. Had several conversations with the first person about hot guys and such, does seam surreal being able to do so. And also now told a second person. To which i got the response of "ah ha I knew it!" And again very supportive. All in all getting there!