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I'm out!!........ Its amaaaaziiing

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Z3ni, Aug 11, 2010.

  1. Z3ni

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    Not.

    So I came out to my twin yesterday, coz I felt bored, so I just texted him asking if he was gay etc. Then I came out to him but... I don't feel.. EXCITED! lol

    I feel this tincy wincy bit difference.. but its a start right?
     
  2. Davo

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    Yay! Well done! That's a brilliant first step. That was what I noticed when I first came out, you expect everything to be different instantly and it isn't, but it takes time. And I came out to my twin too, but neither of us has brought it up since, but we're still as close as we were so nothing changed.

    Out of interest, how did he react? Do you think you'll be able to talk to him about it?

    Anyway, well done and congratulations!
     
  3. SAGUY84

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    Its a start :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:


    What was his reply? Was he shocked?
     
  4. Z3ni

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    He wasn't shocked, he said he kinda knew lol, we talk the same it was just normal haha..

    And hes had 2 bfs already!!... bitch ¬_¬
     
  5. SAGUY84

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    Did you find that out after? So he is gay? or bi aswell?
     
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    Congrats!! Great start!!
     
  7. Z3ni

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    Hes gay and I found out after

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    thx for the replies btw :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrat's.

    If one twin is gay I think it's something like, there's a 60% chance the other one will be too.
     
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    hey every step counts, don't forget that

    congrats!
     
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    Congrats, it must be great to have an understanding gay twin :grin:
     
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    Well done. It's a great feeling doing it for the first time.
     
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    Haha love that your twin did turn out gay. Always good to have a sibling who knows what you're going through. Don't be jealous about the bfs thing...each of us reaches that stage in time.
     
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    Congratulations!

    Don't worry about not feeling as ecstatic as you think you should. I felt that way too. Honestly, I think you hear so much "OMG I'M OUT AND I FEEL LIKE I COULD FLY, I'M A WHOLE NEW PERSON!" that it can be hard to measure up to what you think it should feel like. Still, don't forget how awesome this first step is!