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Out to my "Family"

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by jblack, Sep 12, 2010.

  1. jblack

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    I am happy to be able to update my profile to read : Out to "FAMILY!!!".

    Today I came out to my other brother, and his girlfriend (basically my sister-in-law).
    It went very well...he was very supportive. Since I'm 26 and haven't really ever brought home a girl, he said he wasn't surprised...which somewhat sucks to hear, but who cares!...he kinda laughed when I told him I thought it might change things. He assured me that it changes nothing!! :slight_smile:

    So now my whole immediate family knows - I think this is gonna help me accept myself a lot more, now that I can be myself at home. We all went out for dinner, and though my being gay was only the topic of conversation for a few brief moments, the whole dinner was awesome for me, cause I could just sit back and breathe a sigh of relief that I've finally told them all!

    Now on to the friends.....yikes!
     
  2. yourillusion

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    Congrats! Glad it sounds like it went so well with your brother and his girlfriend. Must feel good! :slight_smile:
     
  3. Lexington

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    Glad it went well!

    ...and pretend Lexington is playing piano to the left there. Don't want to ruin the avatar theme...

    Lex
     
  4. alan t

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    congratulations! :slight_smile:
     
  5. GoinStag

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    Congrats!

    Glad to know it went well :slight_smile:
     
  6. x2x2x2x2y2

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    Congrats!! That's great!! :slight_smile:
     
  7. Owen91

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    Isn't it funny how the feeling of being out can make a whole dinner better, even if it's never mentioned? :slight_smile: congrats!
     
  8. Eleanor Rigby

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    Congratulations (*hug*) That's great you're out to your family and that everything went well with them.
    Let us know how things are going with your friends.
    Take care, Cécile
     
  9. Holmes

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    Well done, it is a hurdle, and definitely nice that they took it well.
    But why would it suck that he might have suspected? It's probably better, as it wasn't so much of a surprise to him, he had already half-dealt with the question in his head then.