ok so if have read my other recent post you will know that i wanted to tell a friend, G. So today me an another friend N, who i came out to yesterday went with her one the bus so G could go home. The point was so that i could tell her. I was so nervous that i didnt even tell her. At the end G was going to get on a metro to get home and we said bye to each other. when she was getting on i felt that i needed to tell her but i couldnt, so i told N to tell her. When all of a sudden she shouted "Dan's gay!!" I turned around and looked at G. Her reaction was serious. I ended up telling her through a text right after. It took me a while to make her believe me. For some reason neither of them believed me at first. It was frustrating trying to make G believe me until she did. I felt good and I still do. I wanna keep coming out, but im nervous about the ppl im telling. Right now i feel like i can yell it out, but if i would actually get up and try to do it I wont. I wish i couldve told her face to face, but oh well. Im still happy she was okay with it and even better im open with them. I just met them both like 3 weeks ago and i feel like we r gonna be good friends... thanks to evryone and their advice...(!)
Congrats!!! At least you told her! I've done the same thing and I ended up never telling them. It will get easier as you tell more people and become more confident with yourself being gay. That's something I'm working on right now: just telling more people and getting more support to make myself more comfortable with myself.
