So yes my gut just sank to china because I told one someone in my main group of mates. I kinda initiated it by bringing up the subject (over msn of course) of the weekend that I went to the gay club with none of my mates for unknown reasons. So then he kepts pushing me to tell him why I did go into Wellington that weekend (which I really need to tell people things, if you want to know something from me, you gotta push me) I told him I went there to go to a gay club. After some questions (such as why? (why do you think man XD)) he said probably the best thing that could be said: So now I can add a +1 to my mates that I have told since I've been on EC. I'm happy.
Congrats You have awesome friends! And they are definitely sound like good people to support you! Have an absolutely fantastic week too!
Yeah I love my mates, I wouldn't trade them for the world. I still have 4 of my main mates to tell, I think this may of gave me some confidence to tell the rest of them and then who knows