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4 people in one day!!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Danny19, Oct 21, 2010.

  1. Danny19

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    So today i told 4 people... I wasnt planning on it but i did it. Today i was laying in bed bored. Then i started looking through my phone to see who i should i come out to. I told 3of my closests friends. Ive known them for like 10 years and i barely told them.

    this is how each went

    Me: well ima tell you a secret
    C: okay what?
    Me: You probably already figured it out but it turns out im gay
    C: what!? really?!this isnt a joke? ur not playin with me?
    Me: okay maybe u didnt know, i wish, but im not
    C: does you fam know?
    Me: no only friends
    C: oh r u gonna tell them? when did u decide to be gay?
    Me: yea eventually.. I never decided to be gay, but if you meant when did i know i was gay then since kindergarten...
    (she asked more questions)
    C: well you know im here for you i still luv ya no matter what xD
    Me: aw thats sweet thanks that means alot...
    C: Yea i dont judge... ive known u to long to just throw it away for that
    Me: oh god your gonna make me cry lol
    C: aww haha

    i felt so happy i decided to tell her brother which is also my best friend

    Me: hey watcha doin
    M: Nothing
    Me: well ima tell u something, idk how u r gonna react but watever. Ima fruit... meaning im gay
    M: okay what do you want me to do about it
    Me: man, u always gotta ruin the moment.. haha watever
    M: okay

    made me laugh and it was nice to hear he didnt care. Then again thats his answer for everything..lol

    and then i told my last friend

    Me: hey
    L: whats up
    Me: nothing much. just gonna tell u a secret, okay well im gay
    L: oh, for reals?
    Me: yea
    L: oh, okay, cool :grin:
    Me: haha ok

    i felt so good about finally telling them

    then i told my other friend, J, she pretty much asked if i wouldnt know i was gay if i never have had a sexual experience with a guy, i told her i have and that i dont like girls like that. Then she gave me some advice and said she supports me and she is there for whatever i need.

    Coming out has been a good experience. Im glad to have friends who love me for who i am. Honestly this site has helped me to tell people. Thank you all!!(!)(!)(!)
     
  2. Eleanor Rigby

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    Congratulations :slight_smile: I'm glad they all are supportive
     
  3. Enaithor

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    Congrats :grin:
    One of the first people I told (that I was bisexual) was just like ahhhh that's so hot
    (She has a slight fetish for guy-on-guy action)
    Then she managed to work out I was fully gay shortly after I did :confused:
     
  4. x2x2x2x2y2

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    I like the second one the best. "Okay what do you want me to do about it". lol Congrats!! :slight_smile:
     
  5. malachite

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    great job!
    (!) (!!) (!)
     
  6. GoinStag

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    Wow, 4 people?!? That's 16 points!!! Jk, lol. That is so cool. They seemed like they all took it really well. I'm happy for you :slight_smile:
     
  7. Danny19

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    thanks to all of you! i feel great being open about it. :grin:
     
  8. TheEdend

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    A little bit late, but congrats! :grin: