I wanted to come out to a friend of mine the other day but couldnt. I started the conversation just how i planed but couldnt finish how i wanted and now i feel really lame for not being able to. We were texting and it went like this: Me: Hey watsup you had a good holiday? Her: Yes, it was cool. Yours? Me: It was good. I'm at work right now and seen some shoes you might be intersted in what size you wear in mens and kids? Her: 7 in men's 5.5 in kids. Thanks for thinking about me. You work all day? Me: Naw i get off at 4 Her: Cool, be safe in this weather Me: Iight i will, thanks Instead of what i wanted to say which was "iight i will but I do want to talk to you about something thats been going on with me...." and take it from there. Idk why but i just couldnt force myself to do it. Its frustrating how I've been planing this and cant go though with it :bang:
People hesitate like that all the time. Plus since you were at work it's probably better that you didn't come out via text - as you'd be texting more and might get in trouble for being on your phone (assuming that's part of the policy of your job, but I could be wrong) Anyway, another - and probably better - opportunity will come where you can come out to her. It will happen (*hug*)
Make sure you are calm and ready to accept questions, queries and whatnot. Prior to coming out, think positive thoughts! Never focus on the worst case scenario, instead focus on how good you will feel when you come out
