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Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by puppysquisher, Oct 11, 2007.

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  1. puppysquisher

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    well i just sent an email about the coming out day thing to my moms email... so bloody nervous for when she comes home.... :frowning2:
    i think i spent 15 minutes staring and the send button hahaha


    but thanks in advance to everybody here

    if i hadnt read the threads here i wouldnt have ever summoned the courage to have done this....

    *waits impatiently* <3 <3
     
    #1 puppysquisher, Oct 11, 2007
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    good job! i know how hard it is to hit send. i came out for the first time last night to my best friend on facebook. i went into total shock after i clicked it. congratulations again for taking the first sep!! good luck!
     
    #2 biisme, Oct 11, 2007
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    Congratulations on your first step!

    The waiting is always unbearable; I feel your pain.
     
    #3 BlueRose, Oct 11, 2007
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    Good job good job, pat your back pat your back ^^

    Just relax, rest your mind, do somethign for now to distract you from the worriness, breath in breath out :slight_smile:

    Tell us what happens k
     
    #4 SpikySpice, Oct 11, 2007
  5. puppysquisher

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    shes here but hasnt checked her email yet and its KILLING ME XD

    im trying to get a friend to get on counter-strike in the meantime :S

    thanks for the comments you guys
     
    #5 puppysquisher, Oct 11, 2007
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    Good luck... keep us posted!
     
    #6 Jim1454, Oct 11, 2007
  7. IHeartDisney

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    Wow you are one brave person. I don't think I could stand it if she was actually home and reading the email while I was there. Yikes! Good luck!
     
    #7 IHeartDisney, Oct 11, 2007
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    I hope it goes well for you
     
    #8 Ilayis, Oct 11, 2007
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    Well done, the waiting must be killing you, hang on in there, the ball is in her court now.

    Wishing you all the best :kiss:
     
    #9 Louise, Oct 12, 2007
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    AAAAGH

    i got no reaction from her last night so i was a bit worried... turns out i sent it to the email wich she happens to not use anymore:bang: .... (would have been useful to know BEFOREHAND :***: )

    cant tall her tonight because a friend is sleeping over :eusa_doh:

    *sigh* saturday afternoon il just tell her in person... this didnt need to be so complicated but i should have expected my bad luck to make things tougher... :tantrum:

    school time now:sleep:
    thanks again you guys
     
    #10 puppysquisher, Oct 12, 2007
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    Yes, in person is better if you can manage it. There's none of the waiting for a response.

    Please let us know how it goes.
     
    #11 Paul_UK, Oct 12, 2007
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    Gah i hate the suspense lol! Hope it goes well =]
     
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    Good luck!
     
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    good luck if you haven't told her yet!! be sure to say how it goes!
     
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  15. puppysquisher

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    yay!!!
    everything went super well :grin:

    at first she thought i was joking but she fully accepts it
    ....but she still wants grand kids hahaha (not gonna happen)

    its feels so great not to hide anything to her anymore
    but my friends are gonna have to mature a LOT more before they get anything from me :badgrin:

    hahaha i feel like a fool for worrying so much :lol:
    BIG THANKS to everyone here again again again


    (while we were talking she was googling stuff for some glbt groups in the city and came upon a club for bears by accident... :roflmao: )
     
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    i'm so happy everything went well for u! congratulations and bravo for having the courage to tell!
     
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    I'm glad everything went well and that your mother was so accepting.
     
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    Congratulations man! You're very lucky to have a mother like that.
     
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    Congradulations! Thats great lol i know exactly what you mean, my friends need to do some growing up before i can tell them anything (if i tell them anything at all). Anyway...Congrats! Its great that your mother reacted so well!
     
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    That's good news! Thanks for passing it on!
     
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