The correcting ok this thread wasnt ment to go up when it did, i hadnt realized until just now that it did post ok i actually came to out to two of my friends (one being my best friend) and it was actually over msn with my friend, it happened way earlier in the day so i cant remember the detail but she took it well and she doesnt judge, by telling her i think we got a little closer as friends. to my best friend (ehlana) me: i want to tell you my secret e: oh? *cough* gay gay gay *cough* me: well you guessed it e: lol what? me: im gay silence me: so... e: well i didnt see that one coming, im actually speechless shes taken it really well though and she (like everyone else) doesn't care