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OMG I just sent the email to my parents. =O

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Alex89, Oct 19, 2007.

  1. Alex89

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    I just sent the email, hopefully answering all their questions. I'm sure it'll be fine, since my parents are very accepting of anyone. My dad's a doctor, which also means he does a lot of councelling with patients so I'm sure he's had his fair share of coming-outs. :icon_wink

    I've asked them to ring as soon as they've read the email, so I'm waiting slightly impatiently, since I have no idea how often they check their emails. I live at college, 4 hours away from them.

    I've already come out to a gay friend of mine I haven't talked to in ages. We were best friends in school, but haven't really been in contact since moving off to uni. He lives in the same city though, and I'm going to meet up with him and his boyfriend! :icon_bigg
     
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    Good luck and let us know how it goes! I bet it's all going to go just fine.
     
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    I'm still shaking, waiting for the phone call (which could come at anytime between now and next week, lol.

    Guess I'd make better use of the waiting time doing some assignments, but I'm just reading all the coming out stories. =)
     
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    Awesome...good on you, hope it all goes well...let us know what their reaction is when they call!
     
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    That sounds so exciting and nerve racking! I hope it goes great for you:thumbsup: Fill us in after they call:eek: now im nervous
     
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    congratulations! i kno how it feels to send a message on the computer and be waiting anxiously to hear back, but it's usually worth it in the end. there's usually a great feeling of relief. good luck!!
     
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    also, welcome to EC!!!
     
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    It went better than I could have hoped! (!)

    They both said they'd individually suspected, but wanted to wait until I was comfortable with it and told them myself. My mum specifically said that she always tried to phrase certain things to indicate that it was alright for me to come out to them when I was ready. Now I can rmember certain things like that (once she was telling me and my sister that "no matter what it's always ok for you to come home, no matter what").

    So my parents said the only thing they were disappointed in was that I had thought they might think of me differently and that I had been worried about telling them.

    I'm so happy! I cried on the phone to them, and then the conversation moved onto other stuff and everything was as it had always been.

    Thanks for everyone's help, and just for other people posting their coming out stories, it's helped me a lot.(&&&)
     
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    Yay for you!!! Im glad it went so well!!
     
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    yay woohoo congrats!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    Excellent - congratulations!!!! :slight_smile:
     
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    Yay! - Well - it might have been a little bit anticlimactic in some ways - but I reckon that's all good!

    Congrats - and glad it went so well :icon_bigg
     
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    Glad it went so well. When will you get a chance to see them next? .. hopefully it'll be big hugs all 'round! Paul
     
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    What great parents you have!!! I'm very happy for you!!!
     
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    That's great news. I don't think it could have gone any better for you. Well done....and what a way for me to celebrate my 100th post....with a great happy-ending story. (!)
     
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    Congrats(!!)(!) Its so great to hear that it went well!
     
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    congrats Alex, you're so lucky to have two very supportive parents. Am glad for you.
     
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    yay! i'm so glad that it went so well!
     
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    congragulations
     
  20. Torture

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    Congratulations.