I wasn't planning on this, but I was eating dinner with a friend and I told him! He was one of my first friends at college and being two years older than me hes become like an older brother. He looked very surprised when I first told him but he composed himself quickly and just said that he was glad that I came to him and that he loves me just the same! So, I've told my best friend/roommate and older brother figure and next is the parents! But I want to tell them in person so that won't be happening until I go back home after the semester. Thanks everyone for helping me with the spiritual aspect of homosexuality... its good to know that there are others out there like me