Hey, I realized I'm bi about a week or more ago, and I am almost completely sure about it, because I've suspected for a long time. I've already told 2 friends, and I feel completely open about it, so I want to tell more people. My question is this: Is this too fast? Should I take more time to study my sexuality, or is it okay if I'm practically sure to tell people already? Thanks in advance, Jonathan
I agree. When you come out, how you come out, and who you come out to is all up to you. Everyone is different, but if you are ready then no it isn't too fast. I wish that I could have been so sure, it would have made my life a lot easier.
I was worried about that too.. I'd say give yourself maybe like a few weeks to try and see what things may be like if you are out at your school, at home, etc. But be as sure as you can be.
Eh, unless you fear reprisals, there's no reason you have to wait to be completely sure. People often keep everything to themselves for a long time out of fear. But unless people are going to give you a lot of grief about it, there's no reason you should wait to tell people. If, later, you decide you were mistaken, you can tell people that, too. Just be honest with people, and it will be fine.
Thanks everyone I guess I'll keep telling since I'm quite sure, and I don't think anyone (important ) is going to give me a hard time about it...
Well, good for you! And I think it's brave of you. I've only told my best friends, and even with them I was almost crying out of fear.
Hey Jonathan, on a humorous level, if you tell people your bisexual, then you have the best of all worlds. As Woody Allen said, you double your chances for a date on Saturday night.
