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my coming out

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by simon, Oct 23, 2007.

  1. simon

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    well i told my school's youth worker and he helped me to tell my mother. the family home i was in found out and forced me to tell the fest of my family. i then came out to one of my friends who then told everyone at Kapiti college so now the whole of Paraparaumu knows that i'm gay. well everyone who doesn't do the computing course i'm doing.

    that's my coming out story. short and lame
     
  2. Ilayis

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    well...............your out
     
  3. InaRut

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    That is a good point....
     
  4. Jim1454

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    Exactly! It doesn't need to be a traumatic, life-altering experience. The smoother and less dramatic, the better! Congrats!
     
  5. simon

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    thanks. wish i could have told everyone on my own without it spreading like wildfire though.
     
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    a simlar thing happened to me, i told my friend and he told people and yea, not everyone knows for sure but most suspect
     
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    I'm glad for you that you are out but fully understand that you would have prefered to do it in your own time.

    This is your life, this a very private part of your life and you should have had the choice to tell who you wanted to when you wanted to. :tantrum:

    How did it go? Were the reactions supportive? :kiss:
     
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    ^ Louise? Can you be my mom too?
     
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    With pleasure, PM me when you want I already have a few EC kids but I say the more the merrier (&&&)
     
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    heee! that's great that ur out! Comgrats! Oh! What were the reactions? were they like supportive? I hope So! :slight_smile:
     
  11. simon

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    most people have started calling me names the worst was 'spawn of satan'

    could you also be my mum too Louise please
     
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    With pleasure Simon. I sincerely hope that the 'spawn of satan' was meant to be a joke! In very bad taste maybe but a joke none the less! :angry:

    Those are such hurtful and spiteful comments I can't belive that people would actually say them out loud :angry:

    Ha, you've really got me going now:bang:

    We are all here for you and I will be happy to chat with you :kiss:
     
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    What will your family say when you tell him you have also got sons in Canada and New Zealand.... :wink: