I wan't to come out to my faimly my mother but i dont know how to approch the situation i tried to once and i got nervouse and said forget it does anyone know a good way to do this? :help: ---------------- Now playing: Native Elements-Blue Skies GreySkies via FoxyTunes
Well, coem out when you are totally ready, even if you are prepared 110%, it may come down to 50. If it's too hard for you to come out by face-toface, try to write her a letter or an email, I have read lots of thread about peopel doing teh smae thing, and their coming out work really well So take your time, prepare your mind better, I think you dont ahve to think what you're gonan say, because you may forget, so just burst it out. Be sure to come out at the right time, when she or other people are in happy mood. Be respected for any outcomes after you come out. And your mother and some peopel maybe shocked and suprised at 1st but they'll get better
Believe me I was more worried about this than my own feelings as well, but my parents were pretty much like "why in the heck were you worrying about us?" haha But yeah, I totally agree w/ everything Spiky said. If you are completely ready to come out, then do it. If you feel like you can't say it out loud, write a letter. I did it and it worked out great. Good luck!
How will i know when the right time is and also what do i right do i come straight out and tell her or do i bs a little?
Well, since your mom love syou, she will love you still dosent matter who you are or become, because you are her son, But it's hard and uneasy isnt it, but dont worry, she will love you still if she can understand you Well, teh right time is when ever you feel ready, when she is in happy mood. Dont come to her and say you are gay. Pick a topic aroudn that and spin it, or you can also drop her some hints, you dont have to say youre gay in order for her to know you're gay
Check out this important information. It will help you come out and help you understand the emotions that your parents might have when you do: http://www.outproud.org/brochure_coming_out.html
Thank you im going to try it again soon hopeful i can do it this time ---------------- Now playing: Native Elements-Blue Skies GreySkies via FoxyTunes
This thread has a bit of information that might help you, mate. http://emptyclosets.com/forum/showthread.php?t=7 Good luck!
I don't think im ready now i just got in a big argument with my mom a few days ago so so im kinda depressed and im not felling well i went to the doctor and i have a bad ear infection and im having a hard time breathing at night.
i think it's a good idea to wait until you and your mom are totally OK with each other. and it might be a better idea to wait until you feel better because yuo might feel more patient and level-headed in explaining things to her if you don't feel like crap good luck!
