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I thought I was more out, but whatevs!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by alexi12, Apr 30, 2011.

  1. alexi12

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    So background story,
    I decided that after spring break that I was going to come out casually. I was going to stop working around conversations that had to do with gay stuff, and stuff like that. So in turn, I'd say it came up quite a few times, and I'm sure a lot of people found out. And I knew that half of the people in our musical cast found out.

    A month before I decided to come out, I told my one friend.. I actually posted that story here. But it came up in conversation, and yesterday she was like "OMG you're gay?!" And I thought she had known. Aparently she took it as part of the joke, but I thought she knew for like two months. And then she asked if I was out, and I said yea. Still in disbelief, she randomly asked like 10 people if they knew! Only like 3 of them did.

    I couldn't believe she didn't know already, but that is the story about how 7 ish people found out in like 5 minutes. One of those people is a guy that I like, so maybe this is a good thing. :slight_smile:
     
  2. Toneth

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    well dang, thats one to spread the word....
    but maybe if he's gay too..... just a thought :slight_smile:
     
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    Oh, lucky you!!!
    Good luck(*hug*)
     
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    thats whats up!! ask him to hang out sometime, see what happens :slight_smile:
     
  5. TheEdend

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    That's awesome. Just shows you that people don't care enough that they MUST spread it like wild fire :slight_smile:

    And good luck with your guy haha
     
  6. alexi12

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    lol, well I don't really know him that well yet... I'm working on it, but aparently his reaction was somewhat positive... according to this friend..
     
  7. EndlessMusic

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    sounds like a cute high-school romance story, keep up detailed :wink:
     
  8. alexi12

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    haha, I will
     
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    It's interesting how you thought people knew, but didn't. Good luck with the guy you like :slight_smile: :thumbsup:
     
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    Haha coming out casually is the way to go! That's how I plan to do it when I'm ready. And good luck with the guy you like. I hope things work out for you!